KYLE RICHARDS: Brandi Glanville Gets The Same “So Sorry” Treatment From Kyle… As Shana Did When Rejected From Kyle’s White Party!

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When will these Housewives producers come up with something original!?

It was deja vu all over again when HagfaceKyle ran out of her dinner par-tay after Brandi was verbally harassed by Faye Rancid.  Hagface Kyle says to Brandi… Well, it’s OK if you leave, but I don’t want you to leave like this…

From December 2011… HagfaceKyle said almost those words the last time someone left one of her par-tays… along with the same phony “bad acting” tears… when Russell (RIP) and Shana were booted from her WhitePar-tay!  AND… watch carefully as John Turturro snatches that product placement bottle of Ciroc vodka outta Russell’s (RIP) hand and carries it into the house!

NOTE:  So funny that when adding Kyle’s name to a post, a tag automatically is created… but it’s not KyleRichards… it’s “SouthPark’s” KyleBroflovski!   Poor Kyle!!

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98 Responses to KYLE RICHARDS: Brandi Glanville Gets The Same “So Sorry” Treatment From Kyle… As Shana Did When Rejected From Kyle’s White Party!

  1. bsbfankaren says:

    That was the most phony “don’t leave like this” when the look on her face said “how quickly can your Bravo negotiated car get here so I can go back to my real friends?” Kyle truly, truly can’t act her way out of a paper bag, and is really not a nice person. I can’t believe I actually liked her the first season….right up until she attacked her sister in the limo.

    • fisk404 says:

      Kim was trying to say something about Kyle stealing a house I think Kim bought for her parents , she was a child star befor kyle was and acted in more things then Kyle and Kyle didnt want it out there and was going to attac k her own sister over it. I can see Kyle stealing something she didnt work for. And i think thats why her and Kim dont get along to well because kyle has done some nasty things to Kim and she dont want any one to know what she had done. I had to google what Kyle was even a child star in , I had never heard of her till real house wifes. But I think she has done things that no one knows about but Kim and some of her family members. I wish Kim would spill it all on Kyle , she thinks she is so much better than all of the house wifes. If she is so rich why dont she live in a mansion like all the other girls . And she set that up so Brandi would get her feelings hurt by the nobody Fake Faye , why she was attacking Brandi was unreal. Kyle had everything to do with it . Thats why she just happened to have lunch with Fake Faye a day befor the party, Faye is a nobody from the OJ trail and I think she was doing drugs then when i was watching the OJ traili remember it was brought up. I hope Brandi keep standing up for her self . Fake Faye had no reason to attack her at all. And Taylor was so upset when Paul got in Brandis face at Kyles husbands party but when Faye started in on Brandi not one of them but Lisa came to her defence. Taylor just sat there looking like she hoped Faye didnt start on her. Taylor is not a true friend to any of them . I feel sorry for Brandi because they all just want to gang up on her. And yes she says things without thinking but alot of us do. I just hope Lisa is going to be a real friend to Brandi because I think she needs a good friend.I hope they take Faye off the show and give her no air time she is just a want to be. If people can remember the OJ trail she looked like a piece of crap way back then. Kyle picks Faye to speak for her because she has no guts. She is a old hagface and so is faye.

      • fisk404 says:

        Oh and also Marisa Zanuck tryed to stick up for Brandi and Faye sht her down and wouldnt let her talk because she wanted herr15 minutes of fame. I like Marisa , I wish she had shut fake Faye down and said her piece.

        • bsbfankaren says:

          I have a feeling that Marisa isn’t going to be the backup Kyle wanted her to be, because of Faye’s actions.

      • bsbfankaren says:

        I finally caught the episode from last season about the house. Kim was the one to take care of their mother when she took ill for the final time. In the mother’s will she apparently left the house to all three of her daughter’s, something Kim did not know before her mother died as she said her mother promised her the house. Anyway, after the will was read, Kim asked Kyle for a loan of 20k since she had not been working. What Kyle did was buy out their sister Kathy’s share of the home, then when she gave Kim the loan, decided that it meant that Kim was selling her share of the house and it then became Kyle’s house exclusively. Kyle says that she loves the house and will not give it up, but Kim feels that her share of the house was worth more then 20k and that she had no intention of selling anything to Kyle, but Kyle will have none of it, so the only time Kim can go to the house is if Kyle accompanies her. That is the main crux of the issues between Kim and Kyle. I don’t see that as something that is going to be resolved unless Kyle gives Kim as least a 1/2 interest in the house, which she refuses to do. Kyle is a nasty person, and I don’t blame Kim for being upset. And if you ask me? This is the reason why Mo was helping Kim financially when she needed it….that is until Kyle got angry and told the world!

        • ktgirl says:

          Kyle did not “buy” out Kathy’s share of the house that was left in all 3 of the girls names. Kathy gave up her share of the house. This has been discussed on SH. Kathy gave up her share meant for Kim to have 2/3 ownership of the house; most likely believing Kyle would do the same. Considering Kim’s money did pay for the house in the first place! At worst it was meant to be a 50/50 ownership that might give Kim & Kyle something to share in. Kyle & Morris, clearly took advantage of Kim by drawing up papers to the effect that somehow $20,000 equaled 1/3 of the house. Kim believed the money to be a loan. Either way you look at it, Kyle & Morris did steal that house from Kim. This is family and Kims name should Never have been omitted from ownership of that house.

          • Hers says:

            Kim clearly thought Vyle and Mo-reece would have her back, but she was either too stupid or too drank/out of it to have had representation on the deal. She should have had either an attorney or a real estate broker/agent reviewing her paperwork.

            • Hers says:

              *drunk

              • ktgirl says:

                Hers, Considering Morris was working for Rick Hilton at the time you would think that Kathy had no reason to think Morris & Vyle would screw Kim over. Regardless, even if Kim was drinking at the time she (Kim) trusted her own sister. I’ll bet Kim felt NO need to have an attorney because Morris worked for Rick. Kims only mistake was trusting Vyle; I can’t fault her for trusting her own family. I have admitted I have a soft spot when it comes to Kims alcohol battle. The way I see it, there are 2 kinds of drunks in this world. A:There are the loud mouthed, out on the town ,Grifter–take no prisoners, destroy their lives, Swine,Traylor Trash “types” or B: The hiding behind a bottle in some dark cafe or @ home alone drinking their life away “Types.” Kim has battled this disease for a very long time and IMO she was a B “type.” For that reason I have tolerance and for whatever reason, I do have some compassion for her.

              • Hers says:

                You’re right, KTgirl. My comment was harsh. Sounds like Kim thought she could trust them, and she probably should have known better, not through any fault of her own, but because of who she was dealing with.

              • ktgirl says:

                Hers: Hi Hers :) Time wise I seem to miss you a lot lately. I never meant you were being harsh “promise” :) . I know how you feel about Kim LOL! I was just trying to make the point about “family.” I’m not the smartest person in the world, but I’m also no “dummy” and to be honest when it comes to family I “trust.” A lot of people have caused me to lose trust in my life but I have always trusted my “blood.” Some people would say that’s foolish and I do have friends that have told me about family matters of finances that are shocking to me. Anyway, I guess I give Kim the benefit of a doubt about trusting her sister…cuz’ I would of too.

            • bsbfankaren says:

              I don’t know if she would have been drunk at the time, but she would have been mourning the loss of the mother she had been taking care of. I’m still trying to get my act together after my mother passed away It’s only been a few months, but clear thought is a little difficult. I wonder if Kim thought there was a clause in the deal that would allow her to buy back in, since Kim said something to that effect on the show. When she had the money, Kyle turned it down, it would appear. Kyle doesn’t need the house, and really should do the right thing and give Kim at least half interest, although it doesn’t look like that is gonna happen.

              • ktgirl says:

                bsb: I understand about your mother passing on. It is still too painful for me to talk about or even accept. My prayers will go out to you to be comforted.
                As far as Kim, she understood the money to be a loan. One can only guess that the agreement fell under the understanding that Kim may have put any doubts Vyle & Morris may have had, about the loan being paid back, by reassuring Vyle that there was always her (Kims) share of the house, if Kim did not pay back the loan.
                It’s completely absurd that Vyle & Morris would equate Kims share of the house being 20k. I think Kathy & Rick trusted the way the paper work was drawn up, because Morris worked for Rick. Kim went to pay back the money and Vyle is the “one” who used the term “buy back in.” I think Kim was shocked to even hear that term “buy back in.” Considering Morris is now working on his own and not for Rick may be more about the “house” deal then we are aware of.

              • bsbfankaren says:

                You’re probably right. Kyle is not a very nice person when it comes to her sister, and I would agree that it has not gone unnoticed. It was Kyle’s idea to come on the show in the first place, and Kyle who had no trouble putting Kim’s business in the street. Even if Kim were looking for work, that would have been difficult once Kyle made it clear that she doesn’t show up for events and that she’s a broke alcoholic. It was wrong for her to do that, even if it did help lead to Kim getting help. A family intervention would have been far more appropriate, and at least some of the distance between Kim and Kyle wouldn’t be there now. Having said that, I used to talk to someone with inside knowledge, right up until it was clear that I was posting comments against Kyle at the end of the first season. I told this person that I’ve dealt with similar issues in my own family and know what it feels like to never have the ability to live down the past, as one tries to move forward. I was told that Kim could be nasty when she was drunk, and that might be the case, but you can’t expect someone to move forward if they are consistently reminded of the past.

              • ktgirl says:

                Could be bsb, I wouldn’t know. It does seem though that Kim’s drinking went from normal to alcoholic after her fiance was murdered. I think it broke her heart.
                I won’t make excuse’s for alcoholic/addictive behavior but I do tend to look for explanations. Having been to many a Al-anon and Open AA meetings I’ve learned a lot. I also think there may be a recessive gene, or a predisposition for addiction.
                Kims alcohol problem wasn’t exactly a secret but it was on the down low. Kyle WAY over stepped her boundaries on the night Kim left Traylor/Swines party and went to the limo. Looked like Vyle didn’t give a rats ass that Kim left until Vyle realized Adrienne went to check on Kim. Vyle wasn’t going to risk letting any of the women get to actually know Kim. Vyle screaming “you’re a f’ing alcoholic” on national television was SOoo crossing the line! Who does that? It’s not like Kim hadn’t reached out for help before…she had, and Vyle knew that.
                Didn’t you notice in the first season how horrible Traylor/Swine was to Kim? Heck even Lisa wasn’t nice to Kim. They didn’t even know Kim. All they knew was what Vyle told them. It’s almost funny to me that Traylor really needs to “check herself.”
                I totally agree that you can’t expect someone to move forward if you constantly remind
                them of the past.

          • bsbfankaren says:

            Oh, I do not doubt what you are saying, and I was not reading SH at the time. I’m merely stating what was said on the show, that was more then enough to indict Kyle in a nasty scheme against Kim, without knowing whether or not money changed hands between Kathy and Kyle, especially since Kathy doesn’t need the money.

      • LINUSSPACEHEAD says:

        Kim said it plain and simple.
        She worked everyday of her childhood to support her family in their lifestyle.
        Kyle stole her g***** house and
        Mauricio is a f***** liar.
        i would have to be intoxicated too to deal with her in light of how crappy she has treated me.
        I believe Kim.

        • bsbfankaren says:

          I’d avoid her like the plague. However, karma is kicking Kyle squarely in the backside, so I would stick around to see how it comes out.

      • LINUSSPACEHEAD says:

        I heard this:
        In Faye’s book she described a lesbian affair between the two of them (she and Nichole).
        This book was released 4 months after her burial. Know that!
        Morally corrupt yes?

  2. donewithbravo says:

    Bleh. It’s bad when Bravo is repeating scenes with different characters now……….
    As a sidenote: Is anyone having difficulty retriving their messages from WordPress? My “button” is lit and I can’t access the messages. Arghhhhhhhhhhh.

    • lisa the Irish Dragon says:

      Yes I was last night its frustrating to because I want to see the responses but dont want to read all of them…lol.

  3. gessiewtf says:

    My thing is when is Bravo going to get put on blast for hiring phony people who lie to get on the show, this Kenya and Walter, Adriana Moourna or whoever the hell she is lying her ass off every word that comes out of her mouth, Taylor is back to being a poor victim that all the fans like, she is as fake as her Birkin bags. You would think the other networks would snark on Bravo for all of this fake reality that is coming out. Caroline’s book, Brandi’s book, everybody in the world’s book, ugh. So over it. Justified was back on last night. I think I am in love with Timothy Oliphant and I will stalk him. Bravo has gotten so bad.

    • ktgirl says:

      gessie, Justified is a great show! I got hooked watching reruns last year. Agreed that Timothy is a hottie! I missed the episode last night but I will catch it. I don’t usually like to watch a show that can be scary and dark, but Justified adds that “it really does happen” “element” so well that I respect that aspect of it. Boy, there was some disturbing sh.. going down at the end of last season, it’ll be interesting to catch up on the new episode. One of the reasons I like 30 Rock is Because they snark so much at pseudo-reality shows. Most of the show and the characters are designed towards a Big ole’ Snark at pseudo-reality! I think there are more and more shows popping up….giving a side-eye Snark at all the pseudo reality bullsh…! They’re just adding there jabs in their writing for their characters rather then just screaming WTF is going on????

  4. madepiley says:

    Faye’s new word musta been vicious.
    NJ-Malicious
    Miami-Gratuitous
    BH- Vicious

  5. Hers says:

    I’m so tired of the product placements, but they’re the wave of the future as we all FF past the commercials on our DVRs. I’ve noticed on Shahs of Sunset, especially, that the cameras really linger on the bags of dog treats.

  6. chachapaa says:

    I thought Kyle Broflovski was Southpark not Simpsons. I know Ms.Sh has been busy but I was just wondering if we could expect to see the 2013 stoopidest housewife soon?

  7. madepiley says:

    ms SH, You should do a side by side comparison of how Mo-reece spoke to Russel vs the way he spoke to Brandi. It wasn’t a matter of being nicer to Russel because he had more money.. at that point he knew that russle and them was broker than Brandi ever thought about being. Mo-reece is just a punk that talks down to people be knows cant jumps up and whoop the dog piss outa him.

    • bsbfankaren says:

      Nah! I still think Mo sides with the money for business reasons, and everyone else is open to unnecessary criticism. He knows what Adrienne did to Lisa, and he knows what his own wife and sister did the Brandi, and yet Brandi is to blame for everything that happens, no matter what. She has no money or status and is therefore inconsequential to him.

      • madepiley says:

        You are right normally he goes with money. But in this case Russel had less money than Brandi or Kim and Mo still managed to speak softer to him than he ever has to those two women. Thats called self protection. Cause at the end of the day he is a punk bish that doesn’t want a mud hole stomped in his butt and thinks nothing of verbal attacks on women.

        • bsbfankaren says:

          Which is why I’ve lost all respect for him this season. So if Brandi had a husband to put his foot up Mo’s ass, his demeanor would truly change.

          • madepiley says:

            I think so. Same with Paul.Notice he certainly didn’t approach Russel the way he did Brandi even though he did call SWINE out by saying “there was something about lying” notice the difference. Both of these men are awful mouthy when they are not operating under threat of a butt whoopin. JoGo is same way on RHONJ.

            • bsbfankaren says:

              Yes, I did notice that he let his wife do all the talking, and pretty much just stood there.

              • Girlfriend says:

                You guys need to come to NYC and see how many a**hole men behave just like this, it’s disgusting, it’s never about right or wrong, it’s all about power and money. It’s WICKED and DEMONIC, pure evil to see human beings behaving like this. I cant stand MOreece anymore

              • Girlfriend says:

                And swine tried to pull this crap with Brandi cuz she saw her as the weaker poorer vessel too. UGH

              • sd says:

                Me either! I can’t belive I ever liked him in the first place. I think he is a pompas ASS!!!! I think the fame got to him just like it did his evil little wife. After the show and his new firm he seems like a real douche with an over inflated ego. Girlfriend I’m sorry that you have to deal with people like that, the older I get the less I like people all of this happens way to often. People are so predictable.

              • ktgirl says:

                I never cared for Maurice. I thought he had a nice body, but I never cared for his personality. I use to just kinda shake my head a little when all these women and men were swooning over him LOL. It always rubbed me the wrong way how he talked about Kim AND the whole house thing.

              • Hers says:

                I never got the Mo-reese thing, either. I go for faces, and his doesn’t do it for me. Who cares what his body looks like. Plus, he was really unattractive in earlier years.

              • Hers says:

                I believe you, Girlfriend.

              • dosi says:

                i love nyc

              • ktgirl says:

                Ditto!

      • Where Doris Eats Her Oats says:

        After all Lisa did for him. He got the commission on her house, she introduced to Mohammad (the Ritz Carlton property downtown among many others – he’s a developer after all) – and he backs up Adrienne. It’s not just who has money, it’s who’s gonna sell their property next. Very Janet Jackson “What Have You Done For Me Lately?”

        Russell, though broke an indebted, managed to find money every month to cover what I imagine was a large monthly nut. And you never know when their next scam was around the corner leaving him flush with cash. Mo really makes my skin crawl

      • I agree, he goes where the money is. It’s his job. He is tops in sales in CA.

        • bsbfankaren says:

          It’s fine that he has a job, but there also should be some character involved. He blames Brandi for everything but global warming, but doesn’t spend his time blaming Adrienne for the nonsense she pulled on Lisa, or what his wife did the Brandi in the first place, not to mention the while Camille fiasco. When I say he goes where the money, I say it because he decides who is right or wrong based on the money they make. While that may work for him, I see it as a character flaw.

    • Hers says:

      Mo-reece — love it, Made! Now I’ll be thinking of that song all day.

      • madepiley says:

        lol. Someone else came up with that spellin on here last night. I cant remember who now My head is still killin me.

        • Hers says:

          Hope you feel better, Made. Caffeine usually helps when I have a headache.

          • madepiley says:

            Thank you. I have been sippin on some sweet tea. :)

            • Hers says:

              You Southerner, you!

              • Hers says:

                This is funny. I wish we had a Piggly Wiggly here. I’d love to be able to say, “I’m going to the Piggly Wiggly!”

              • madepiley says:

                Yeah we used to have one.

              • justso says:

                So funny but we still talk that way in Georgia. Thought everybody did. Hmmmmmm

              • ktgirl says:

                made, These chickadees are So funny!! I totally enjoyed there clips. Do they have there own show?
                I lived in Dallas for a year after high school and I loved it there! It took me awhile to understand what people were saying, LOL. I learned to slow down at the way I speak and once I did that, it all made sense. I still remember this sweet guy whose name was “Doonie.” I had 2 jobs then, and ‘one’ was as a hostess at a country club. I showed people around the club and checked passes and such. Doonie cleaned the pools (I think) and he use to chat with me up front all the time. One day we were talking about BBQ chicken… I use to really love it. Anyway, Doonie says to me in that slow southern drawl “kt, chickens are Filthy animals.” He proceeded to go on & on about dang chickens LOL!
                If I hadn’t of moved there with the biggest “dirt bag” on the face of Gods green earth, I might of stayed! The first chance I had I called my Dad and had him change my round trip ticket to NY (wedding) to a one way ticket back home. I HAD to lie to the “dirt bag” if I wanted to live. He was back in NY 5 days later. Sorry for the rant.

              • madepiley says:

                Well I am glad you got away from him kt. I hope he didnt give you too much trouble after that.

              • ktgirl says:

                Thanks made. I really was thinking about that BBQ chicken story with “Doonie” when the “dirt bag” crept into my head. It was pretty bad for a few years. He was a crazy, mean, drunk stalker. One night he even climbed onto the roof of my Moms house trying to get into my bedroom. Ripped the gutter right off of the house. God was watching over me because I slept in the playroom THAT night, fell asleep watching TV. My sister was visiting and she was sleeping in my bed. He freaked out and left. My sister would have kicked his ASS! Still have a nightmare sometimes.

              • Hers says:

                Ktgirl, that sounds terrifying. (But I have to admit the thought of him hanging from the gutter makes me laugh.) Thank God you’re okay — and your sister, too!

              • donewithbravo says:

                I agree. ktgirl, sounds horrifying (but the gutter part was amusing). Weird that scary things like that still pop into our heads and give us PTSD. I was raped a few years ago and every now and then it haunts me. :(

            • donewithbravo says:

              MP: When you’re able, follow that tea with water. Dehydration leads to migraines too. Hope you feel better!

              • madepiley says:

                Thank you done. Will do.

              • ktgirl says:

                done: I don’t know how to reply to the post from you and Hers. I did confirm but I’m doing something wrong? Thank you done, Hers and made. I hear you. Hard to believe that 25 plus years later we can still have a nightmare like it was just yesterday. Many years later the gutter story was funny. Especially when my Dad saw it.
                I think a cord was struck in me because I don’t buy into Swines abuse story one bit. Plus dating a married man? Where is Brandi’s scruples on that whole matter?

              • donewithbravo says:

                ktgirl: Ahh, you’re onto something! This is another common link we have (abuse) and it makes us too aware that Shana doesn’t fit the pattern. Sorry.

              • bsbfankaren says:

                Darn it. I want to reply to you all, but this message is getting too small. I’ll catch it next time.

              • ktgirl says:

                done: Sad isn’t it? Nothing about Traylor/ Swine/Shana and her domestic abuse story flies with me. I’m not saying that he may not have gotten physical with her (which I would NEVER condone) but when she painted her picture she used the wrong brushes!!! When she drinks you can see the sheet drop in her eyes. I think she has a Dctr. Jeckyll/Mr. Hyde personality. I’ll bet she was drunk and crazy with him. I also think she broke her jaw from a drunken fall…maybe even hitting the sink before she popped it back in.

              • donewithbravo says:

                I agree. I think they had a violotile relationship, very similar to Chris Brown & Rhianna (she’s no angel either, nor do I believe she was injured at his hand). NOT.BUYING.IT.

              • lisa the Irish Dragon says:

                I dont believe she was abused other then the Things Russell admitted to, To many of her stories have been disproved and once one is disproved the rest are suspicious IMO.
                I think Taylor is a socopath who dosnt think beyond MEMEMEMEMEME. There is a clip where Taylor and russell say bravo picked them to be the “drama couple” and well they didnt deliver and perhaps taylor felt her days on the show were numbered so Unbenonst to Russell Taylor decided to invent some drama and told the girls “she was beaten” by russell but shhhh dont tell him i told you. But at the tea party the cat went out hte bag and then Taylor went to people magazine ect You can literally see the gears going in russells head as things fell into place in the limo after they were tossed from the white party, everything weird that was going on all made sense to him now his wife threw him under the Bus big time. Swine is a ho bag its just a matter of time she does the same to “the married man she is screwing ” sorry even when he gets divorced he will always be imo the married man she is screwing,

              • lisa: All the Shana videos can be found on the SH masthead… there’s a ton of ‘em! TFC!! SH

              • donewithbravo says:

                lisa: I totally agree with every word you said!! Well said!

              • ktgirl says:

                done: I’m so sorry to know you went thru that :( . How are you feeling? I s the flu passing yet?

              • donewithbravo says:

                Hey, kt: Yeah, I’d say I’m now 90% back to myself. Thanks for asking. It was a long few weeks!!!

              • ktgirl says:

                Hey Done: So glad to hear that. I still haven’t gone for that flu shot yet but I will. I’m still sad about what happened to you. Makes me angry. I’m glad you have your DH and family. As far as the flu, like you told made keep drinking that water…hydrate!

              • donewithbravo says:

                Thank you, ktgirl. It happened before I met my husband (we’re only together 5 years), and I let my guard down b/c the guy was so gorgeous and believable. Anyway, I hid it. I buried it. I tried to pretend it didn’t happen. I didn’t press charges. Something I’ll always regret, but I didn’t want my kids to find out. It haunts me when I least expect it though, as any abuse does. Live and learn, right?

              • Hers says:

                That really sucks, Done. So glad you’re in a great happy marriage now. I know that’s helping to heal you.

              • donewithbravo says:

                Thanks, Hers. It was hard to trust again, but it DID happen. He’s my rock.

              • ktgirl says:

                Done: Interesting about the Rhianna/Chris thing. While I think she’s a wackadoo herself I had always felt he was fully responsible. The photos were brutal. You know I was very young when I went thru it. Never happened again, Never will! I can see that “Look” in a mans eyes a mile away. Once you’ve seen the “Look” in a violent mans eyes….you never forget it!

              • donewithbravo says:

                ktgirl: Okay, you just made me cry b/c I know exactly what you mean——–it’s like you’re seeing a devil, right? Truly frightening and you feel helpless. Wow, still raw…….. My rapist looked just like Adam Levine (Maroon5), only better looking. I just trusted him. As far as Rhianna goes, I knew someone who worked at Arista records back then and she couldn’t speak too much about it but from what she inferred, I knew it was fake.

              • ktgirl says:

                done: So sorry, I should have known you would know what I meant by the “look.” Know one has ever understood what I mean before. My heart goes out to you. Yes, it’s the look of evil. Was many many years before I could even talk about it. I understand….most of my family still doesn’t even know. I kept it that way… I was afraid someone would kill him. I couldn’t bear the thought of ruining a loved ones life over this “dirt bag.” We remember, we are not alone done and they can’t hurt us ever again. I wish you much joy & happiness in your life and I’m glad we have chatted. Sleep well done, talking to you about this has been good for me. Thank you. kt

              • donewithbravo says:

                kt: I, too, only confided in a few people about it. Long story, but I was dangerously hurt from it. My doctor urged me to press charges but I was too scared. Weird, but the dude who did it tried to apologize after and check on me for a while (prob so I didn’t press charges!!). He worked for the gov’t. Anyway, yeah, the “look”. I don’t talk about it with many people and I blocked a lot out. Only my husband knows (most) of the details. Horrible. Anyway, have a good night. We can learn from our mistakes and move on. I try to warn tons of women about the dangers of meeting up with people they don’t know (even if they’re gorgeous and you THINK you know them!!!). xoxo

              • BritishBev says:

                Sorry to hear of your ordeal DWB, I went through the same at the Queens Jubilee Weekend in 2002, I lost my friends at a works do, stupidly accepted a drink from a stranger whilst looking for my friends, as I turned my head for 30 secs, my drink got spiked. After an 8 hour ordeal by two men, I managed to get away, they were arrested and charged but I was let down by the British prosecution service, not enough evidence (even though there was cctv and witness statement), it was ‘too hard to prove the drug was ever in my system’ apparently. I was taken back to a hotel and to this day, sometimes a night on the sofa feels much better than lying on a bed. I don’t wake up with my limbs frozen without movement much anymore. I hope you find the strength in you to not let the bastards take over your life, they are scum of the earth, you however, have a wonderful life to live, so I hope you live it with peace and much deserved happiness x

              • Hers says:

                Wow, what an ordeal. So sorry to hear, BB. I’ve told my girls about these drugs but never talked to any actual victims. It can happen so fast!!

              • BritishBev says:

                Blink of an eye, that’s all it takes. I found a girl in a club (I made myself go out after, kind of falling off a horse, get straight back on or never ride again attitude), she’d been spiked but her mates decided she was just drunk but I recognised the sympoms, she was so cold and out of it. I got her in the bathroom, sat her under the dryer and covered her in coats, she couldnt’ move to start with. Eventually her bf came looking for her (over an hour later) to say I ripped him a new arse is an understatement!

              • Hers says:

                WOW! I’ll be warning my girls about this again tonight.

              • BritishBev says:

                Please do Hers, a second glance away from a bottle or glass means you never go back to it, my friends find my frustrating at times but NONE of them, while I’ve been out has never had to go through the same. Thumbs over bottle tops, never accept a drink from a stranger, and if you turn your back on a drink, NEVER go back to it…. GOLDEN RULES…..

              • donewithbravo says:

                BB: I think we try to “save” women/girls after that!!! That’s great that you saved at least 1 girl!!

              • Hers says:

                British Bev, thank you for the great reminders. I hope everyone here reads this.

              • donewithbravo says:

                Hers, I’m embarassed to say that mine wasn’t even due to drugs–it was just a matter of trust, and I trusted a man that APPEARED to be handsome and proper. I was wrong.

              • Hers says:

                That’s nothing to be embarrassed about, Done. You were a victim. Don’t do that to yourself, please!

              • donewithbravo says:

                Thank you, BritishBev. Horrid. I blocked it for a while but shared details (most) with my current husband. Some times things will just remind you of that evil horror, huh? I’m sorry you went thru this too (mine was at a hotel room too). May you live from hereon out in peace.

              • ktgirl says:

                done: I just deleted a whole thing I wrote to you because I realized I went to deep, but I wanted you to know I was thinking about you. I’m sure you understand. Hope your having a great day! kt

              • donewithbravo says:

                ktgirl: YES, I understand that all too well. I don’t really discuss that whole thing in detail too often, as I’m sure you don’t. It’s nice to hear someone’s understanding of it though. Sorry you have dealt with pain like that. Makes us stronger though!

    • Malaika says:

      Totally second that

  8. Malaika says:

    Sorry, was referring to what Madepiley was saying about Mau-rice talking down to broke people. So right on.

  9. bsbfankaren says:

    SH, TamaraTattles is posting about you today. I use to post there, but she threatened to set my posts to moderate because I wasn’t playing nicey nice with her favorite posters. Just an FYI if you are interested.

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