STOOPIDEST HOUSEWIFE OF 2013…SH Readers Have Voted!!


SH readers have cast their votes for the Stoopidest Housewife of 2013… and it’s a landslide!

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It comes as no surprise that the title will be bestowed upon JAX LAURITA!



As the winner of the poll, there are a bazillion gazillion reasons for BubbaJax gettin’ the sceptre, crown and sash… and as soon as we can find those items, which have been in storage for over a year… we’ll be presenting BubbaJax with the sceptre, crown and sash, presently being “virtually” worn by the outgoing 2012 Stoopidest Housewife, Cynthia Bailey!

As this is a READER selection, we would like to hear from YOU as to WHY you voted for BubbaJax to receive this once-in-a-lifetime honor.

Leave your reasons for making BubbaJax the winner of “Stoopidest Housewife of 2013″…  comments will be included in the OFFICIAL announcement!

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NOTE:  The SH storage locker containing the accoutrements which BubbaJax, as the “Stoopidest Housewife” is entitled, was recently auctioned off on “StorageWars”!!  

We are now in the process of hunting down the dastardly demon who would be strutting around tryin’ to pass themselves off as the winner of “Stoopidest Housewife”!!

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This also serves as a toodle-ooo to BigDummy Cynthia Bailey!  

SO… a big “bye-bye”… cheerio… see ya later… adieu… adios… hasta la vista… have a nice day… parting is such sweet sorrow…  so long and ta-ta… to 2012 winner, Cynthia!




The Real Housewives of Atlanta’s…


Cynthia Bailey… Cynthia was very happy when she heard the news of being crowned 2012 STOOPIDEST HOUSEWIFE!

We are so pleased with Ms. Cynthia Bailey as the 2012 STOOPIDEST HOUSEWIFE!  

Cynthia is joining an elite group!  There have only been two Housewives to have held this honor before Cynthia… Lynne Curtin and Kelly Bensimon…HERE.

We attempted to present Ms. Bailey with her official sash,  scepter and crown; however, Ms. Bailey is still heavily involved in her “model search” and could not be reached…  

…not even to comment!

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This scene from the last season of the Real Housewives of Atlanta was the seed which started Cynthia on the path to snaring the coveted title “2012 Stoopidest Housewife!”

There will be more to come as to how and why Ms. Bailey was chosen over the SH reader favorite and top runner Jax Laurita.  Sorry, Jax… maybe next year!

Note to Cynthia:  Had you been around longer, you may have had the title sooner!

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351 comments on “STOOPIDEST HOUSEWIFE OF 2013…SH Readers Have Voted!!

    • Okay, I’ve had a wee bit more coffee so I will say more: BLK as a cure for diseases such as autism and cancer. That’s about the stoopidest thing I’ve ever heard. If BLK is a cure-all then I have a beautiful island to sell you in the middle of Iowa where a leprechaun sits at the end of the rainbow to give you his pot-o-gold.

  1. Jac-a-loon (allegedly) scamming Komen to the tune of $18 million and believing it would go unnoticed.

    Jac-a-loon twambling pics of her organized pantry whilst people are without power and shelter following Hurricane Sandy.

    Jac-a-loon twambling about washing private parts, how only four of their rooms have generators and to look on the bright side following Sandy.

    I’m sure I’ll think of more…

        • That was a funny movie. Loved that they went to The Dresden, the dive where my cousin I used to go to goof on the dorky piano duo of Marty and Elayne. Back in the day, that is.

          • What was so great about the movie was that it captured LA so perfectly — a group of not-so-great looking guys (except Vince Vaughn) expecting to pick up on only the hottest looking chicks. The Dresden is great, and Marty and Elayne are still there! I haven’t been in about 15 years. Fun girls nights in Hollyweird.

            • I actually bought a VHS (VHS, I know!) tape that they were selling and had them autograph it in a very Eddie Haskelly way. Mean, I know. But, her rendition of ‘My Beautiful Balloon’ was the stuff of nightmares.

  2. Congratulations, BubbaJax! Well deserved! Here’s to all of your nut job tweets, fake sleeping antics, immature behavior, Teresa bashing, Chuckie ass kissing, BLK water promoting, Botox injections, lawsuits, and lies……without them you would never hold this title! Wear it well honey, make us proud! We know you will!

  3. IKR! Here’s a little nugget from Porsha’s Bravo bio, “Porsha Stewart is a saucy southern lady and embodies the essence of a confident woman wise beyond her years.” LMAO Wise beyond her years? How old is she? -15?

  4. Jax thinking we want any of her “expert” beauty secrets considering the woman’s “beauty” is a product of fillers and botox (way too much IMO) and she has 10 neck rolls.

  5. So glad recognition is given to those that deserve to be honored. Her family must be so proud of her achievements.

  6. Jax is stoopid because she doesn’t know what scrapbooking is. (She claims to love it but I’ve never seen her do it.)

  7. Well the first time she started tweeting I knew she was one froot loop shy of a full bowl.Why do you think she always wears that pony tail? To cover up the valve stem.

  8. Jax is stoopid because she let herself be filmed grabbing a bottle of Baileys to doctor her morning coffee while skyping about her daughter with her ex.

  9. Congratulations ‘ Bubba Jax’ you earned it! Cornering a 10 year old girl, (who was smart enough to walk away) and forcing her to listen to your drunk, condescending ramblings; while YOU read a book on “how to be a good sport.” Adding a little coffee to your Baileys at 10 a.m. so you could whine, to your ex-husband, about your own daughter. Attacking Teresa about the tabloids, as you snuggle up in bed with ‘Radar on lines own Tom Murro.’ Being a NO show at the season 3 reunion, claiming you were having a break down, because you were getting drunk with Km G. at her house! Intertwining autism, while peddling BLK as a cure all. Ripping off a cancer foundation. Last but certainly not least…to ALL those infamous Tweets……

      • I think Jax sould have read that book to herself. She is a very poor sport when comes to Teresa and her succes.

        • I think the whole world was thinking that same exact thing, watching the ‘game day’ episode that night! That’s part of what made it so bizarre….Jax doesn’t have a clue about being a good sport!

      • Reading a story to a ten year old child that is out of control is not being a bully. It may be in appropriate but it is not being a bully!

          • Even if she did it makes her a Ahole not a bully. I have never denied Jacqueline could be a ahole.

            • LOL. Yeah she was an a-hole. By the time she brought the book out, Gia was in control. Playing by herself wishing the”‘mature” adults would either leave her alone or go get her mother. Visions of that scene play in my head when I read Jax tweets about all the “therapies” she is trying with Nick. When an adult is an intentional A-hole to a child then that’s abusive… it’s like in the bible n stuff(paraphrasing obviously) :)

              • The book she was reading to Gia was a picture book aimed at preschoolers. Reading such a book to a tween in that mocking, sing-song voice was malicious and hateful. That is no way to discipline a child, especially a child that is not hers to discipline. But, seeing Jacaloon’s discipline style in action, it is easy to see why Asslee turned out the way she did.

              • @Ana — YES! And that’s why I can never be too upset with Ashley. She was raised by Jacqueline. I’m rooting for the poor girl.

              • Yeah, well, I find the concept or idea of Ashley a lot easier to sympathize with than the reality of a snotty, spoiled girl with an overinflated sense of entitlement that is Ashley. It is not her fault that she is the way she is and yet, there she is.

              • She was created by Jacqueline and Chris. Hopefully, the longer she is away from them, the more she will change.

              • Nick doesn’t tell her he loves her as often as she thinks he should and her response is to buy a diagnosis.

              • He doesn’t need a diagnosis, she needs a diagnosis and I got it right here: Jacaloon you are a complete horror of a human being and an abject failure as a mother. There, she didn’t even have to wait for approval from insurance to get it. You’re welcome, Jacaloon.

              • ITA Ana! I originally wrote “a doctor Seuss book… meant for a 2 year old” but I deleted it, to shorten my post.

              • It is never okay for an adult to mock and ridicule a child. I was never disciplined in such a manner by parents, relatives, teachers, etc. It is just completely abhorrent to me to see a child treated this way.

              • Also consider this…. How did the cameras end up in the play room? Did Jax and Don say ‘follow us boys, we are fixin to put Gia in her place.” Or did a evil camera man, well aware of the fact that Jax and Don despised Tree say “Hey you guys might want to go give GIA a good talkin to, she is in the playroom pouting and you know her momma aint gonna do nothing(because we will keep her busy) to chastise her child.” My bone of contention has ALWAYS been that an adult that HATES the parent has no business disciplining the child since its all for show and they REALLY dont care if the child learns from it. Gia had Jax’ number from jump. Believe that. Also consider the amount of time they devoted to their goal. In real time TWO books were read and I am sure the first book didn’t come out till Jax and Don both had flapped their jaws dry FOR BENEFIT OF CAMERA ONLY for a good long while. Bottom line, the village cant take part in raising the child if the village wants to hang the momma in the town square. As soon as Jax, Don and cameras rounded that corner it was on and poppin and I would WORRY about a child of 10 that just sat their ‘looking Don in the eye’ and took that with nary a peep.

              • Agreed Made, I was just going to say that, Caro who was in full blown hatred of Tre had no business saying peep to Gia.

              • Disagree not abusive but stupid. I think we get a little carried away sometimes with abuse and bulling. Sometimes people are Aholes or stupid and it not abuse just what it is stupid.

              • I think when you’re acting stupid with a child, then it IS abuse. A child deserves the highest level of care.

              • Oh come on Adults are human and being such don’t always deliver a hundred percent of what they are capable of. If an adult speaking their mind to a child in a polite way (which they did) no raised voices, swearing or name calling is abuse then I was an abuser. Gia was playing in the basement with another child not chained to the radiator. She was a guest in someone’s home and was rude and demanding. If she wanted her mother she should have gone to her not demanded someone get her. I repeat when she first smart mouthed Jacq her mistake was not taking her in hand to her mother and letting them know that her smart mouth and bad attitude needed to be dealt with. This coming from someone that actually swatted a behind once or twice raising 5 children. Trust me I know what physical an emotional abuse its, It was my childhood. This was at most inappropriate and comes no where close to being abusive or being bullied.

              • In any behavior there is a continuum, and I realize that what they did to Gia does not rise to the level of most abuse (thank God), but to me it was still abusive for adults to treat someone else’s child that way. Sorry, JMO.

              • I think it was abusive because Jax did it in a very tedious and bitchy way. She wasn’t earnestly trying to help, she was telling Gia, I am the adult, you are in my home, I am going to sit here and belittle you by reading a 2nd grade book.

              • Thanks, Gold. I’m guessing from something you said in a prior post that you’re Jewish, and so I want to wish you and all other Jewish commenters a very Happy Hanukkah.

              • You prolly right Cyn. It was so stoopid that even jax KNEW she was gonna catch crap for it as soon as she watched the episode.

              • made: Exactly! Gia walked away…she was calming herself down just fine. Then she and that little boy were just starting to talk. Jac-a-loon was drunk…and was completely out-of-line when she stepped in. If Jax had a grip about herself, she would of just left well enough alone. The Don got involved for the same reason Jax did….resentment towards Teresa. Neither Jax or Don. Caro got involved with good intentions. Both of them had beyond questionable motives as to why they felt the need to taunt and belittle Gia! ITA made–this type of parenting is scary period…..I, especially, worry for Nick.

          • I agree. Gia tried to escape from her but she followed, calling after her in that strange high-pitch voice she uses sometimes “I REALLY want you to hear this.” That’s twisted.

        • @Originalcyn1 — Did you watch the episode, ? It sure was bullying! It’s NOT okay for two grown women to segregate a 10 year old child away from a party and down to a basement, then berate her for her behavior (all without her mother’s permission), simply because the child was upset that someone cheated at a game. It’s not anyone’s place to discipline a child, much less bully a child, without the parent’s permission. I don’t agree that Gia was out of control, but if you think she was, then it was still HER MOTHER’S job to discipline her. Come on! I can’t say more strongly how wrong it was. It’s fine for grown women to gang up on each other, but NOT ON A CHILD.

          • Both Jax and Don’s motivation for that lil display was to try to paint Gia as an undisciplined brat thus achieving their end game of showing Tree is not a good mother. They failed. And G to the IA could have told them it was not gonna work right then and there. The 10 year old saw right through them.

          • No one stopped Gia from leaving and going to her mother. It may have been wrong for them to politely verbally discipline her but it was not bullying or abusive.
            Being stupid is not the same as abusive or bullying. Just the way I feel and yes I have watched it. Now if it was me when Gia smart mouthed me I would have taken her by the arm and deposited her with her mother with a few sharp words. Yes that makes me an abusive bully.

            • “No one stopped Gia from leaving and going to her mother.” You really don’t think that two women — especially women that the child considers to be her “aunts” — taking a child to a basement and ganging up on her would be a very intimidating situation for a child?! The very definition of bullying is when a person “uses superior strength or influence to intimidate (someone), typically to force him or her to do what one wants.” That’s what they did to Gia. Adults should not stoop to the child’s level; they should act like adults. My kids don’t smart mouth adults, but if any adult ever put a hand on my child, he/she would be answering to me.

              • First of all no one forced Gia in the basement she was playing with another child. Caroline spoke to her, didn’t call her names or berate her.I’m sorry it may be inappropriate but wasn’t abusive or bullying. For the record Gia was rude and demanding as a guest in someones home. Gia wasn’t abusive just being a rude 10 year old.
                Jacque read her a book not beat her over the head with it. Again not abusive.
                We will have to agree to disagree because this could go on forever. Yes I would never discipline someone elses child but if I chose to speak to them I don’t think it would be abuse. I think we are all getting a little too melodramatic about things we see on the show.

              • Cyn — I think there are different scenes on these HW shows that strike a chord with each of us, and this scene was it for me, in spades.

              • Lets not forget what started this whole mess Gia was mad because she thought Joey cheated yet There is footage of Gia cheating in the Drunking both so Gia cheated then had a hissy fit when someone else did, But then do as I say not as I do is probably a reoccuring theme on her home. I agree with Cyn it may have not been the right things to do but it wasnt abusive or Bullying No one forced Gia into the basement she was already there and she got up and left no one chased her no one blocked the exit or laid a hand on her.

              • Its still not abusive to correct a bratty kid acting up in your HOME. Gia is old enough to know how to act when you are visiting someones home She also is old enough to know that if you are complaining about cheating you shouldnt cheat yourelf.. Do I think Jax and caro was right no they could have handled it better.But it wasnt abusive and Bullying Both these words esp bullying is being overused and taking away from REAL victims.

              • Caro was tryin to preach for the cameras and Jax was reading like a nine yr old. This wasn’t about discipline it was about camera time and bashing Tre by way of bashing Gia.

              • Lisa — Gia’s home life aside — which should have nothing to do with how a 3rd party treats someone else’s child — they should have let Gia’s mother handle Gia. Those two b*tches have done a horrible job with their own kids. They’re in no position to even discipline (let alone bully) someone else’s kids.

              • They didnt strike Gia, they didnt block the exit they didnt didnt lay a hand on her nor raise their voices to Gia they didnt mock her or call her names, Worse they did was read her a book that was for a preschooler but then Gia was acting like a bratty preschooler. IMO Gia wanted her mom because she knew her mom wouldnt do jack to her and pat her head and say everythingi s ok..which is what she did, Jax and Caro may have not done the best with their kids but Teresa is hardly mom of the year either.

              • @ Hers: ITA. And since when did mocking and ridiculing a child constitute “discipline”? The word discipline comes from latin, disciplina, meaning instruction given, teaching, learning, knowledge. What lesson does a child learn from being derided and humilated?

              • I hope this ends up in the right spot….Lisa, we honestly can’t compare Gia’s cheating and her ADULT Uncle’s cheating the same. No matter what a child does, an adult should never stoop to that same level. The situation should’ve been handled by Teresa only. Regardless of whose house it is, if Jax and Caro saw that Gia was upset/distraught, it was not their place to talk to her (if that was my house and a child was acting like Gia I would immediately find their parent and ask them to handle it because each family disciplines differently)…and when she asked for her Mom and was crying, and they didn’t go get her….that’s inappropriate behavior by 2 adults. When Jax read her the book, it wasn’t in a calm and rational tone, it was in a “I’m going to teach YOU a lesson”….which to a child can seem bullying…

              • let e make this clear I am not saying what they did was right, Just saying its not Abusive or Bullying. Teresa stated they Talked about Cheating in School and Gia took it seriously so that tells me she knows what cheating is and knows its not right at any age and not right for anyone. Gia is not some 5 yr old she is 10 yrs old and knows the diffewrence between right and wrong. I wont agrue it was unapprproprate But it wasnt bullying ot abusive.

              • She was a little girl, upset by her family not getting along and uncomfortable there filming with a buncha nasty broads and cameras.

              • Then Tre should take her off the show if she is so uncomfortable But of course we Know Teresa will never ever do that.

              • I never said it was Teresa fault, fact is I never even said or defended what Jax and Caro did I just said I didn’t believe it was Bullying or Abusive. So there is no “classic” anything.

              • Jax & Caro (but esp. Jax) and their self-righteous attitudes toward Gia in this situation certainly did intimidate Gia into staying in place in that basement (and not running off to find her mom, because believe me she wanted to). I’ll even give that as my reason for voting for Jax as the Stoopidest Housewife of the year! Her ability to be so dad-gum Self-Righteous on a continuous basis makes me sick.

            • Exactly, wouldn’t you look after your child if you knew she was upset? I’m not saying that Tree’s not dealing with her upset child was abusive or neglectful. If were going to judge so harshly then there is blame enough to go around.

              • Teresa didn’t know that her child was being tag teamed by the drunken, neck flabbed hag and her jowl-faced cohort in the basement. Gia’s being upset SHOULD have been brought to Teresa’s attention by those two bloated trolls, thus Gia imploring for her mom.

              • I guess it was easier for the two dimwits to take out their wrath on a 10-year-old than on their real target Teresa.

              • Of course. Bullies always choose the soft target. How sick and twisted they are to use Gia as a proxy for Teresa in their campaign of hatred against Teresa.

              • She saw her run off upset and didnt go after her, personally I dont think anyone handled the situation well.

              • She knows her child. If my child were to go off wanting privacy to chill out and get a grip, I would let him. He is good at removing himself from a situation and calming down. Following after him and drawing attention to the fact that he was upset, would only embarrass him. We discuss things, like reasonable people, in private at a later time when all is calm and there is time to get perspective. I respect my child enough to do that and I would guess that Teresa does, too.

              • Ana, that’s how I handled those situations when my son was younger too. In Teresa’s place, I certainly wouldn’t have called more attention to Gia’s upset esp. with cameras filming.

              • Bless you for allowing your child the space he needs when upset and also realizing that moment is NOT the time to delve into the “whys, hows, and whats” of the situation. Your child will grow up emotionally healthy because you are wise.

              • Sometimes mothers know when their child needs “alone time” Gabe is same way. It would only exasperate the situation if I publicly corrected him right there on the spot. Humiliation is not a good parenting technique. Jax SHOULD know this already.

              • I guess i was a lausy parent When my child was upset I diodnt just let her run off alone. I made sure she was how did i not get CPS called on me

              • No Lisa, you knew what worked best for your child. That was a decision that you and you alone as her mother should make. Imagine if that battleax at work ever tried to discipline your child while you two were in the midst of your brouhaha. You would lower the boom on her right quick and in a hurry I am sure. See the difference?

              • I am not saying or pointing fingers who was right or wrong Just trying to say I dont think it was abusive or bullying, Frankly those 2 words are being over used esp in the HW universe Its taking away from real Victims if you ask me.

              • Its beyond abusive if ya ask me. Its sadistic. Tormenting a child to the point of tears for the pure divine hell of it is sick. If there was ever a situation that called for a flipped table,flipped couch, flipped Jax that would have been my tipping point. I would have demolished that demented hag. Skinny comments dictate that we shall agree to disagree.

              • All I know is that when I saw it, I felt very uncomfortable for Gia. I would have felt very intimidated by having two of them there. One would have been okay. But they truly should have just gone to Teresa. They seemed to go out of their way to find her and talk to her. Why couldn’t they just go up to Teresa?

              • That would have been to mature for those two. Remember, they’ve done such a great jobs with their own adult kids…

              • exactly. to me, intimidation IS A way/form of bullying. people should realize that adults, (if only by virtue of SIZE in relation to a child) are considered by most children as intimidating.

              • I don’t think it is harsh judgement to say that these women acted badly. If you think Jax and Caro did this outta love for Gia, then I have a bridge to sell Rather than sit and argue with a kid, they could have just walked away, or alerted Tre that they did not like Gia’s behavior, which is what a normal adult would have done.

              • Kel ITA!!! those two did not act like normal adults…they decided to intimidate their enemies daughter since they couldn’t “woman-up” and tell whatever they had to say to teresa’s face (until much later)

      • Hi Hers–Absolutely!! Huge mistake, on my part. I WAS thinking that: “BULLYING a 10 year old girl”, in my head, but foolishly I screwed up writing my thought. That scene with Jax “Bullying ‘Gia’ a 10 year old girl” is STILL one of the most upsetting scenes for me, I’ve ever watched! She’s is a little kid….shame on wacko-Jacko! Same goes for Don Caro. Thanks Hers…good catch.

        • @KTGirl — I knew you felt that way. I think it was the most upsetting (and actually haunting) scene I’ve watched in any HW show to date.

          • @Hers-Thanks, I thought you would know how I would feel. I just couldn’t believe I wrote “cornered” rather then “bullied.” Although, Jax did corner little Gia FIRST–then they bulled her! It was like she was trapped like an animal, or a mouse stuck in a maze. I felt utterly helpless watching that scene….and yes it was/is haunting.

            • I think “cornered” is actually the same as “bullied.” I wasn’t correcting you, just wanted to make sure that word bullying was out there for all to see. I felt helpless watching it, too. It was painful to watch.

              • In real life, our friends have a rule that adults are allowed to guide the kid toward the disciplinarian unless the parent grants permission but then priority goes to a relative (like JoGo or MeGo in this Gia situation) to administer punishment. I sincerely hope that none of the kids on these shows are ever put in the same situation as Gia was put in. These reality shows force the situation of “friendship” and Don Caro was never Tree’s friend (her words). Jax is Don Caro’s lap dog, so Jax and Don Caro tag teaming Gia was not the same as what happens in our social and family circles. That hate that Don Caro has for Tree was transferred onto Gia IMO. In retrospect, I expect nothing else from a woman who called her own daughter an a-hole on national TV and aired that her daughter was essentially an overweight, lazy fat arse whilst praising her son that had the dream of a stripper car wash and the other son that was failing outta law school (learning disability my a$$ since accommodations have to be made).

              • This just goes to show you what length’s BRAVO will go to. They could have cut that all out of the show but they choose to humiliate a CHILD. Be proud jacaloon and carowhine you made yourselves out to be asses and you can never take it back thanks to your pals at BRAVO. Carowhine you can’t prove you are a good person doing what you did. How did you treat your children? Jacaloon, you’re another story, you are mentally ill and it will get you sooner or later.

              • Standing Ovation Barb! Well said. caroline thinks she can give parenting advice after that miserable fiasco? IMO Gia was held against her will by two adult women. Gia cried and begged for them to get her mother. She asked them to stop numerous times. If two grown men did what these two women did to Gia….they would be in jail. Jax want to be an advocate for autism after this spectacle?

              • Thanks my friend, :-), I speak from the heart…if that had been any one of my 3 children I think I may have had some choice words for those two. Caro has 3 adult children who can’t think for themselves and jacoloon is on the path of destruction with one of hers. I pity them all.

          • You know how shows using animals include the disclaimer at the end that no animals were harmed in the making of this movie and that scenes involving animals were supervised by representatives from whatever animal protection group? Maybe Bravo should have their scenes supervised by CPS and carry the disclaimer that no children were harmed, etc.

            Why are children used on TV programs not afforded the same protection as animals?

              • I am really late to the table on this one. This was a clear case of bullying. Gia removed herself and in effect gave herself time out to think and contemplate the situation.Why was it necessary for Caroline to get up in Gia’s face? Why was it necessary to mock and condescend to Gia? If they have a problem with Gia take it up with Teresa , her mother.
                Gia asked numerous times for both women to go get her mother. It becomes abuse when Gia is detained against her will.. How would Jax feel if someone did that to Nic? What if someone decided Nic wasn’t speaking because he was being stubborn and contrary and they were going to make him talk? I can hear the blood curdling screams from viewers around the world. After all surely those paragons of virtue , Jax and Caroline (funny how no one can look at Caroline calling Lauren and asshole and Jax complete inability to discipline her own child and see a pattern of dysfunction!) were only acting out of the goodness of their heart? Or their hate?
                As long as people refuse to acknowledge bullying then bullying will continue. As long as folks refuse to acknowledge abuse then abuse will continue. Clearly some want to put a different face on bullying and abuse and sweep it under the rug.

              • Thanks for the shout out Hers!Long day shopping and lunch with adult children and grandchild ! So much fun and such a wonderful reminder to count my blessings! You knew I couldn’t leave this alone. Bullying and yes I said it bullying . One more time BULLYING a child is never ok. Bravo should never allowed much less filmed this despicable interaction. Bullying isn’t always about being it’s about power. People think abuse and bullying are overt but that is not always the case it is often subtle. Gia was bullied . Jax and Caroline were absolutely thrilled and power tripping at the opportunity to chastise Gia. Sick pups both of them.

              • ITA, Aint. Sounds like a wonderful day. That’s the point KTGirl made earlier — bullying isn’t just the big kid demanding your lunch money.

              • I Agee, it was wrong…. I felt so sad for Gia… And I wanted to scream and the 2 stooges…. Gia did ask for her mother, she didn’t get her herself, she had bee crying… She was embarrassed.. But the 2 stooges enjoyed tormenting Gia… If that’s how they get their jollies, I pity them… How low can they go… But then again, what else is new… They sink to a we level ever week they are on..

  10. Jacaloon pointing her bloated, alcohol induced edema finger at Juicy and saying, “I hope you go to jail” when she and her husband are facing fraud and perjury charges themselves was a jewel of stoopidity in her crowning glory of stoopid.

      • Hi Hers: I had stepped away, right after I commented. I did follow up, ‘above’ on this with you, when I came back. Sorry I missed out on so much. I totally agree, I thought it WAS Bullying–I did then–I Still do! Some still think bullying is some tough boy named Butch from ‘The little rascals’ with his sleeves rolled up, hiding behind a building, grabbing another kid by the collar and saying “give me your lunch money, or I’ll punch you in the nose!” Jacaloon and Carowhine were both cruel and over bearing, a.k.a BULLY, with Gia and it was sickening to watch this go on. I would of jumped thru the T.V. if I could of!

        • Thank you, KTGirl. I’ve been saying that same thing myself — bullying is NOT just the lunch money scenario; it’s much more.

  11. I think it should be a tie with Jac and Kim Z. Two women who have no concept of reality…whatsoever.

  12. Clear winner for ALL the above comments. Wonder if she’ll wear her her up or down when she claims her trophy because she’s stoopid enough to claim it too.

  13. Last point I want to make about the Field Day fiasco… One of the things about Tree that irritated Jax and Don to no end was Trees ability to put on a smile and pretend that she didn’t “get” what they were doing to her. They wanted a reaction out of Tree so bad they could taste it… for two seasons. The RHOM girls tend to do this with Karent too. Smiles to HWs must be like reg flags to bulls. Tree was not giving them that satisfaction so they picked on a child. They were not gonna stop badgering till they saw blood. They are animals. And GIa who is light years ahead of both of them in terms of maturity extracted her pound of flesh from them in the end.

    • Again, Made, very insightful. As someone said in another post (I think it was Aint), Teresa’s playing chess, while they’re all playing checkers.

        • I’m with y’all who call the Jac and Caro attack on Gia to be bullying and in the worst way…adults who’ve been nasty to Gia’s parents behind their backs and to their faces for years. Gia knew what they were doing. That damn toddler book would have been the last straw…I might have whacked her in the head with it. Disgusting.

            • LOL made! I was just thinking…It would of been Great to see little Milania, out of no where, Grab that book right out of Jac-a-loons hand…. and just whack Jax in the back of the head with it!!!

              • Hail far Milania knowd enough to know she didnt want no part of all that mess that day. Had she been there I am sure she would have had a thing or two to say. I think Gia as a higher frustration tolerance level. Which reminds me, remember when MeGo said Antonia was gonna be POed? That was an odd thing for MeGo to say about her daughter unless she too is guilty of running her mouth about her aunt Tree within ear shot or Antonia.

    • Yes and wasn’t there a rumor that there was a bonus for anyone who could get Tree to essentially do the table “fiip” again? I think Miss Andy is twisted enough to put that into their contracts and I think Don Caro is b*tch enough to try to do it…over and over and over again…

      • Thats what I was just saying. That would have done it for me… Tree showed Jax compassion there in that den. I am not sure I would have been able to do the same.

        • ITA. Tree showed restraint that I don’t think I have. I feel strongly about how people treat my bird and he is just a pet, not my child. If I had to witness this child rearing spectacle of Jaxass and preachy Don Caro, I’d flip bodies!

              • They are fun pets and have personalities all their own.
                it didnt take long for me to see I have the worlds most spoiled Pigger. They can be messy. Piggie stans will tell you you have to have 2 pigs but I only bought one he seems good, But if you get 2 make sure they are same sex or you will have baby piggies. There are lots of Piggie message boards I cruised them before I bought him. dont mention Peru or Andrew Zimmer in front of your pig, Andrew ate Guinea pigs when he was in Peru I said the AZ infront of clover and he bit me. ;)

              • Oh my Lisa, I didnt know all this went into a Piggie. I thank you for all your info. I really appreciate it so much. Sorry about clover biting you cuz of AZ, shame on AZ. You will be the first to know when I get one and I might name him after you, if you dont mind. :)

              • sounds fine to me, Pigs will make you laugh and scratch your head, Right now clover is inside his house pushing it from the inside to the side of the cage he wants it on.

          • I dont think Tre totally understood what had taken place, until she watched the episode. Then she could have probably body slammed some folks.

    • It it is like red to bulls, Made. I used to do to bitchy coworkers all the time. And if you really wanna tick of someone who tryin to be catty, giggle and shrug. Women who are tryin to tick you off hate when you dismiss their petty bs. Remember Heather? Lol

  14. Congratulations Looney, you beat everyone by a mile. Just shut your mouth about Autism because you ain’t no expert and you are scamming all those people who love you to death. What dillusional people they are. Have a good reign. :-P

  15. Since I can’t reply to where I want to above— Lisa I am not saying that to another adult, Jax and Caro’s behavior was bullying, but in a child’s eyes it was. I remember being a kid around her age and having “adults” treating me in a way that was in a “teasing” or “bullying” fashion (“oh are you gonna cry??” kind of thing). Being that they were adults, I was afraid to do/say anything, but thinking back now, they used their age/status to make me feel a certain way…which was scared and I didn’t run away because I didn’t know what would happen if I did…Maybe if one of them went to talk to Gia, one-on-one it wouldn’t have been so bad…but they both were “in her face”….that’s intimidating to me…(we can agree to disagree, but I wanted you to know where I’m coming from)

  16. Made, that’s one of the best lines ever, so I have to supersize it at the bottom here: “Skinny comments dictate that we shall all agree to disagree.”

      • Thats not always true I have been picked on plenty of times Been made fun of and outright told i was wrong Lets not forget the several times I have been told”i offended someone” or had my spelling errors mocked because someone didn’t like my opinion
        While Most people are nice here not everyone is I have the scars to prove it.

        • Lisa, I know that’s been true at times, and I’ve tried to step in for you when I’ve seen it going on, but you are very well-liked by the vast majority of us here.

        • Lisa, I like you and I like your opinions. I’m sorry you have been made fun of and have been targeted or attacked. Tone can be very hard to read online, but I know you do not set out to offend people. I feel very bad for overreacting on you that one time because I was an a-hole. We hugged it out and it’s all good but I would never want for you to feel like you cannot state how you feel. You are respected and your opinions and insight are valuable.

        • Lisa, I don’t always agree with your opinions but I do like your posts. Hope that when we disagreed, I didn’t offend or insult you.

        • Lisa, as a Melissa fan, I feel yah. I like everyones opinion and I never belittle anyone for theirs. Might not agree with it, but its all good. And I think the biggest myth is I don’t have to Prove anything. Those who like Tre don’t.

          • I disagree with your blanket statement: “Those that like Tre don’t”

            Seriously? What you’ve done IMO with that blanket statement is create a divide as in “If you like Tre, you never prove anything”. You are welcome to that opinion. I just don’t agree with it. The “Team Melissa” vs “Team Tree” divide is created by people making blanket statements such as this. There are a lot of intelligent people on SH and I have seen facts laid out by all kinds of fans, even MeGo fans.

            • Chem. When I read stuff here alot of people have no proof. You know for a fact that Jacqueline drinks more than Teresa? . You know for a fact that Nicholas isn’t autistic? You know for a fact that Melissa was a stripper. No. You know none of that for an absolute fact right. You have never sat in the Laurita house and seen Jac drink day after day right, you haven’t sit in Teresa’s house and counted the glasses of Fabellini she drinks every day, you haven’t met Nicholas to prove he isn’t autistic right and you personally have never sat in the bar and watched Melissa strip. All I have said is this is what I believe and I am not going to prove nothing when those same standards are not applied to everyone else. I like Melissa and I am a fan but I am not every going to defend her when she does something stupid. I also will never lower myself to call Tre a foul name.

              • May I suggest a more appropriate question When has anyone seen Jax without her buddy and companion…. alcohol? LOL!

              • I rarely see Teresa drink. Have not seen her drinking with inebriated personal trainer . Not first thing in the morning Baileys in coffee.while skyping with ex. Not drunk with her daughter’s boyfriend’s mother whom she just met. Not asking for sex on the beach cocktail at business lunch with cosmetic executives. Not drinking first thing in the am on the Napa vaca. I have not seen Teresa drinking to excess while having intervention aimed at teenage daughter at lunch . I have more but this seems sufficient…

              • Great points, Aint. Tell it! BTW that drink she ordered during the “business” meeting was a screaming orgasm, even more inappropriate IMO than sex on the beach.

              • Thanks Embee for the correction. I knew it was something wildly inappropriate and the side eye from the executives was very telling. Jax made everyone uncomfortable. As for her excuse ..Oh Please. If you want to be treated like a serious business woman then act like one. This isn’t an episode of mad Men in the swinging sixties nor is a lunch in 1980s Vegas where you are paid to “model” and mingle with drunken executives.

              • C’mon, everyone, poor Jax is just trying to bring back the 3 martini lunch…and 3 martini breakfast…and 3 martini dinner… ;)

              • I had a baileys and coffee this am, haha. I am not a drunk. I have had a drink at lunch but it was a lunch with the executives from my work. Heck I had a margarita 3 nights ago a christmas party for work. My point being I don’t think any of the woman drink much but I think Teresa’s husband does.

              • I will say in all fairness I have never seen Caroline drunk either. Caroline doesn’t need a drink to be mean as a snake. IMO Jax knew full well she could play passed out had to much to drink in Napa. Clearly it isn’t a new look for Bubba Jax.

              • She has repeatedly had an open bottle of fabellini and a glass or twittered about it constantly how she is opening up a bottle. My point is I don’t think any of them drink to excess.

              • I’m sure tweets about Fabellini because can you imagine this ? It’s a marketing tool and she doesn’t have to pay anyone to market her product. Again Teresa is playing chess and the others are playing checkers. When Jax, MeGo and Lapband are arguing and fighting on twitter they are damaging their image and credibility. Stoopid really. Why not keep it positive ? Brand yourself and promote your product rather than wasting time on trash.

              • BINGO, Aint. BINGO. (And I quoted your brilliant chess/checkers line with a credit to you, while you were out shopping and having fun yesterday.)

              • Thanks for the shout out Hers. I was never impressed with Tre’s business acumen until I have watched the others failure to launch. Mego is 15 years, 3 kids, a husband and lacking a stand out voice shy of even being remotely competitive in the music business. When Kim sells better than MeGo then Houston we have a problem. The cannoli might have taken off like a rocket if Kathy had the good sense to ally herself with the right cousin.Jac is Wac and will never achieve any measure of genuine success , instability has that affect. Caroline transformed into her own worst enemy by bullying Teresa , Gia and commenting rather nastily and very publicly on Teresa’s marriage. It’s to late to play to retract and rewind the genuinely vulgar and nasty and attempt to accentuate the positive as Teresa learned long ago.She is playing chess and they are indeed still on remedial checkers.

              • SO now Teresa is a Tea toddler who rarely drinks soon she is going to be protayed as Mother Teresa ministering to poor orphans and reading to blind people, oh and lets throw i n Wshing Ducks who have been soiled from oil slicks. Teresa drinks and at her dinner table there are wine glass and wine bottles, and in napa she was drunk just like the rest
                and you all wonder why people think Teresa is sainted By some of her fans.

              • @dsuea, Oh Lawdy, did you throw out another blanket statement-derived paragraph?Lumping everyone into the same camp? So now EVERYONE thinks Nic isn’t autistic and EVERYONE thinks MeHo is a stripper and EVERYONE thinks Jax drinks more than Tree.

                Are you insulting Ms SH or just SH readers?

              • Or were those above questions being asked of me and not SH readers as a whole? It sounded like everyone was lumped together but maybe you were just asking me.

              • No what I am saying is this, I am not the only one who has to prove what they say. Jac is a drunk, Nick isnt autistic are examples. You cant hold one group accountable and not another. My point is that I dont think any of these women drink any more or less than the other.

              • Thank you for clarification. Of course you can have an opinion about anything and shouldn’t have to back up your opinion. Differing opinions are valuable. It’s a rarity that I see opinions expressed as facts on SH. What you note about the drinking, autism diagnosis, etc, are expressions of people’s opinions based on perceptions and experience. Some people think Jax is a drunk. Some people think Tree should leave Juicy and accepted diamonds as a bribe. Different strokes for different folks.

              • Yep and thats all I have been saying. I have never seen Jacqueline drunk or drinking excessive compared to anyone else, but Juicy has. I think if I was a tre fan, i would pray that she would dump him, I don’t think he is good too her or for her.

  17. Jax deserves Stoopidest Housewife title because her brain is now the size of raisin thanks to Botox and fillers. That’s right Jaxass injectabales are not your friend.

  18. O.K., now that we have re-dabated the Gia field day debcale and decided that she was bullied and not treated inappropriately (just going off the number of commenters on this post today) and would like to state my reasons for why Jax should be the Stoopidist Housewive of 2012.


    1. Trying to convince us that she met Chris in Chicago as a “convention model”(what the heck is a convention model anyhow?)
    2.Pretending to be asleep during the big throw down between Teresa and Caroline after she passive agressivly instigated the whole thing to begin with.
    3.Letting Bravo dub in Nicholas saying “I love you” when Ashlee left the house for good and then showing up at the reunion saying that he can’t say those words any longer. (that wasn’t just stoopid that was sick)
    4. Screaming “I hope you go to jail” to Joe Gudice.
    5.Having a xanax and bailyes fuled breakdown because Teresa wouldn’t tell her about Teresa and Joe’s legal problems. (huh??)
    6. Torturing us with pompous, rambling,hypocritcal,nonsensical tweets.
    7.Pretending she was never a stripper.
    8.The alarming and disgusting amount of plastic surgery she continues to have.
    9. Behaving as if her bankruptcy is a normal endgame to a failing buisness and glossing over the amount of greed and deceit that is involved in it.
    10.Using her baby’s Autism as a storyline!

  19. I understand the vote and know there is tons of Teresa fans here but I really think the stooooopidest housewife has to be Teresa. She let her husband get her into a black hole of debt. She then stood by him while he commited fraud, not once but two times. She almost ended up in federal court for allowing him think he could lie to the Bankruptcy court. She has stood by him as he has been arrested for drunk driving, chipped a tooth in drunk cartwheeling and then to top it off she has stood by him amist all the cheating scandles. The absolute worst was this year when he called her a B&&&& and C^^^ on tv. What I don’t understand is as a woman, if I were her die hard fan, I would be screaming from the mountain tops for her to dump him now. Why would any woman friend not step in and say, Teresa, we love you but no one need to keep such an anchor around their neck.

    • I need to disagree with the “let her husband” comment… as a married woman, I know I don’t have control over my own husband’s actions/behavior…so to say that she “let” her husband get her into debt is unfair. In my home growing up, my dad worked and brought home the paycheck, and my mom (God rest her soul) handled the finances and bills…and my dad, as a loving husband, trusted my mom to take care of it without asking her or questioning her….If anything Teresa’s husband “allowed” Teresa to think she could spend the money like water and didn’t tell her they were in trouble since he is the one who took care of the bills….Standing by her husband through his idiotic behavior with drinking and driving and etc is different than “allowing him to think he could lie to the court”….A husband and wife don’t control each other (controlling is not a marriage)….so blaming Juicy’s antics and immature behavior on Teresa isn’t right….the only thing she is responsible for (in this whole mess) is staying with him after he called her horrible names on tv (and if he did cheat)!

      • ITA. I am so sick of women blamed for everything. Are men just giant babies without any self control, personal responsibility or ability to make and own decisions. Juicy made it quite clear with his “happy wife / happy life” mantra. Since the dark ages woman have taken the blame from everything to war to the destruction of dynasties. I don’t allow my husband to think or do anything since he is fully mature and capable of rational thought.
        This is the same rational that says if a man cheats it must be the woman’s fault. Really?
        I never realized how all powerful women like Teresa are. What’s next Hurricane sandy was all down to Tre? Now the Guidice financial mess is cuz Teresa made Juicy do it? Lordy let me go put on my 1950′s house dress, my pearls and my apron cuz it’s throwback time

        • I dont think everything is Tre’s fault she and Juicy are both at fault when it came to the Money mess,They are both at fault for their own reasons.
          I always crack up when people say “my spouse wont let me” or “Ill have to get permission to go out tonight”

        • ITA I don’t blame Tree for Juicey’s behavior anymore than I blame Melissa for Joey’s. Both are grown men and should be accountable for their behavior despite their wives.

        • ROFL about throwback time!!!

          ITA that people are responsible and accountable for individual actions. I am also tired of women being blamed. I better go ask my boyfriend if it’s okay if I go to hot yoga in a few hours…or do I need to stay home and cook him dinner while he lounges around in his smoking jacket, puffing on a cigar and sipping scotch after a long day of doing man’s work. (LOL–okay, he seriously does not have a smoking jacket and he hates cigars and I don’t cook for him)

          • It is throwback time! IMO Teresa is equally responsible and she owns it and has gone back to work and that is why she continues to be on the show. I’m sure like many woman Juicy handled the money and she went along with Happy Wife/ Happy Life to her own detriment. I know plenty of couples especially when the husband owns his own businesses that have little more than working knowledge of what husbands profit margin, expenses entail. Yet while we understand we all know Teresa is not absolved of any responsibility. I wish them well.

      • Teresa herself said she had no idea about the financial end of their marriage. She said and I quote, “Joe took care of that”. When it comes to bills in our marriage, I am half responsible for every bill and you can rest assure that I know exactly what is owed and what needs to be paid. My marriage is a joint venture, no split checking accounts and savings. This is a partnership. Teresa was naive and never paid attention. She took diamonds from him as an apology for his calling her the names. I am sorry, You would take diamonds as a bribe? Not me.

        • You totally missed the point in what I said….and there are different ways to have a joint marriage…you each can have roles that are important…what you define as a joint marriage does not mean it’s what works for others or what they believe is a true marriage….my parents’ marriage was the happiest and best and I hope that my own will even come close to measuring up. And I will say it again…my mom handled all the finances and bills because that was part of her 50% she added to their marriage….and as her loving and trusting husband, my father trusted her to take care of it…..Maybe Teresa thought she had that kind of marriage…since Juicy didn’t tell her there was a problem…why would she think there was??

          • Teresa had to have known something was up, she owed 11,000 to Nordstroms I dont know about you all but when my bill is late I get phone calls and mail and she owed money to the fertility clinic you want people to believe they didnt try and contact her for payment . Nothing will convince me Teresa is/was a Mushroom wife who was kept in the dark and told nothing she may not have known his business debts but no way she was in the dark about the other debts that were not being paid.

              • I got that off the old aol military message boards it was made up to discribe women who let there husbands run everything and didnt tell them anything about military life . they kept there id and didnt give them money.
                I dont buy tre was 100% in the dark, i do think tre has denial down to a Art form and it makes her look stupid from the money troubles to the cheating rumors and beyond. now because i am trying to pepper good things about teresa qwith the bad things, she did step up to the plate to help her family survive a lot of women wouldnt have done that.

                i know teresa is a loyal wife but there is a fine line between loyality and stupidty and teresa is almost there IMO

              • Ya Lisa, but the thing is, sometimes you gotta know when to grab your stuff n go, and when to ride the storm out. We don’t know her motivation for everything, if I was in her shoes I may have also acted like I wasn’t in on the financials, or maybe she really wasn’t. Either way, instead of freaking out and runnin off, she may have just decided to wait, work on herself, and then see where her marriage is later, after she has gotten herself together. We can say she’s stupid, but maybe she is just cooling her heels until she can pay stuff off and fix her life.

          • well when I dont pay my creditcard, the next day after its due, they are calling me. I don’t pay the phone bill and poof, its not working. When you can’t use the Norstroms card or the Macys card? How about the bills in the Mail, what he snuck home everyday and hid the mail.

              • Tree may not have known in the beginning but at some point she had to be putting the pieces together. Like when they started paying cash for everything. By that time she just didn’t know to what extent they were in debt. I imagine she pooped a peck of pickled peppers when she found out it was 11 million!

              • I would say so. I would say that Juicy used the ole ‘waiting on money” line that is SOP in the construction business…. and especially considering the time frame that this all went down. As long as her immediate mad money funds were not interfered with she prolly bought that hook line and sinker… far as long as she could.

              • Oh no Doubt he tired to fool her But I dont buy her excuse she didnt know until he drug her to the Lawyers office and filed no one is that much in the dark.

              • Sadly having your own business is often waiting for others to get paid so they can pay you. In 08 you were probably waiting a long time. Bankruptcy can often be a chain reaction like it was for many during the financial meltdown. The flow of money dries up so fast it is like someone turned off the tap.Difficult to survive.

              • Do you know that for sure ? Maybe the 200(ok i know it wasnt 200 ) mortgages and second mortgages and 3rd and 4th for that matter, he had on his properties But I doubt the credit card and Fertilty clinic bills did or the personal Bills that pretained to the Granite and onyx Tomb they lived in.
                I know people want to absolve Teresa of the Bankruptcy problems But She had to have known but decided to take a cruise on the USS DENIAL again

              • All bills prolly went to the office. I would say that as many bills as possible were used for tax write off purposes. My husband handles our our bills. I would be up crap creek in a hurry if bullcrap was going on but that just how we do it. Been that was from the beginning of our marriage when all we had was a handful of bills(hubby couldn’t fathom being put on an allowance with money that he earned) now that we got grown people bills I wouldn’t touch that mess now with a ten foot pole…even if he begged. :) I gots the life of riley in that regard but if it ever goes south I will be the last to know.

              • I dont know where the bills went he may have gotten them all but that dosnt mean when things went south she didnt know. She owed everyone in town, even Kim D These people had to have said something to her when she went to do further shopping. I just dont think she was in thedark as much as people want to think she was

              • What I am saying is Juicy prolly told Tree not to worry bout it if say Kim D mentioned it telling Tree he would get paid next week and he would make KimD whole again. Then next week never came.

              • made, I can see Juicy doing that. At the reunion he basically ended the entire thing by telling Tree not to worry and he was taking her to dinner.

              • She might have in the end but like I said I think the bills were going to the office as well as the phone calls.

              • Well you know as well as I do, when you owe money they call everyone you know and every family member cause they are still looking for my ex and his sister for multiple bad bills. Heck I have remarried and moved from MD to CA and they are still calling. They would have called the house and sent stuff to the house or her cell.

        • Oh and please do not reply to my comment and say “I am sorry you would take diamonds as a bribe?” When did I say that?? Did I say that Teresa should stay with him after the cheating allegations and the horrible names?? No I didn’t…nor did I say that diamonds fix everything either…

          • Of course you wouldn’t take diamonds as a bribe. Try not to worry about it. There are a lot of “blanket-y” statements being thrown around, so I’m sure this is just another “If you defend anything Tree does, then you fall into the category of taking diamonds as a bribe.” Just like every person that doesn’t have a problem with Tree thinks Nic’s diagnosis is fake, thinks Jax drinks more than Tree (we all know Jax drinks but I dont’ know if anyone has ever said “Jax drink more than Tree” until now), thinks MeGo stripped, etc, etc… A lot of blanket statements tossed around about SH readers and I’m not liking it. Nasty stuff if you ask me.

            • I agree Chem Geek. It’s tiresome. A dig at Jacqueline is followed by a diatribe about Teresa. A negative comment about Melissa is followed by laundry list of Teresa’s sins, or accusations of blind devotion and canonization (is that a word?) of her. It’s so predicable.

              • About as predictable as the List of excuses that get posted to explain why Teresa behavior is ok. and why she is never in the wrong.

              • It is always followed by comments about St. Teresa, canonization and dramatically exaggerated beyond the comments intent. Silly of course because it does not add to the discussion but takes it in an entirely different directions. It’s fine to have a different opinion but please do not misinterpret mine to the extent that it becomes an exercise in futility. But I maybe that is the point. if someone takes my opinion and turns it into something that does not even resemble my comment then maybe we will all stop expressing our opinions. Frankly it’s tiresome.

              • You are right Barb. I’m all for a healthy exchange of opinions but when my opinions are deliberately exaggerated and opinions are expressed as fact while my facts are dismissed opinion then I am frustrated. DNR. Do not respond.

              • Its almost like People have Freedom of speech and are excersing it. Since we are making statements about what we wish people would post, I would love the people who say over and over Teresa isnt perfect list what she has done wrong and not offer a excuse as to why it was ok she did it. See both sides can play this game.

              • I thought picking on Melissa’s card about the “redone house” and throwing away the sprinkle cookies then laughing it was wrong. I thought it was wrong when I heard about it, and I think it’s wrong now. I also said in a prior comment that I thought she acted like a “beast” at the PFS when she egged on Danielle.

              • Agreed Aint. It gets old that every time you comment about the stoopidity of a nj hw, you get a comparison arguement about Tre. Everything doesn’t have to be about Tre, we can discuss another nj hw post without having to compare them to her. I’d like to think there are people capable of disliking Tre yet also seeing that the other women have faults too.

              • Thank you! I was trying to have an adult discussion and talk about how we can’t put labels on what we believe a good marriage is because to each person, that has a different meaning…..but then I got really ticked off when I’m lumped into the “I would take a diamond bribe” crap…..How about we have a “go at” the HWs and not each other, regardless of which HWs we like or don’t!

              • I can see good and bad in all of them but unfortunately all discussions lead back to Teresa and her faults. If we discuss any housewife or give our opinions then we are subject to blanket statements and the Saint Teresa, diamond , c-word. Even a discussion about Kathy’s cannoli. I am going with Barb’s advice and clicking ignore.

              • I know what you mean its tiresome to me to hear over and over how Teresa isnt perfect followed by a list of excuses as to why its ok she is a Bit*ch and how nothing is her fault..yet she isnt perfect.

    • Well well well. I have to agree 100%. Its what I have said all year. As a woman and a mother, if my husband would have ever done to me what this man has done to her, he would be collecting his belongings from the curb. I am not a Teresa fan but if I were, I too would be screaming for her to dump his butt. I also believe that Joe did get her in the financial mess. I am sure he kept telling her everything is ok. The first sign of problems financially is when you have to pay cash. Teresa is very Naive.

    • I think you’re saying (dsuea) that Teresa is stoopid for staying in this marriage (vs saying she is “letting” her husband do/say the things you listed.) I think Teresa has been clear – in action as well as deeds – on the limits she has set on what she will tolerate in this marriage, so doesn’t come across as stoopid to me in this regard.

          • Actually she probably did buy her own I am sorry gift since Juicy isnt working much.I doubt his teeth cleaning scam is making much dough.

        • My theory is the diamonds are a cover up for what she actually did to punish him. Maybe she takes a bat to his manhood every night? Forces him to practice drunk gymnastics without wine? Makes him eat Katfish’s cannolis from the kit (after they have sat on the stoop for 2 days)?

          • Excellent theory Chem. Katfish cannoli at gunpoint would be awful. Kind of like those eating contests where the person chokes and gags just trying to shove it down. As long as it works for Teresa and Joe ….. Different strokes for different folks.

  20. Reasons for my belief that Jacquelyn is stoopid:
    One, she exploits her children for her own personal desires. It is a law of nature to PROTECT your children and anyone who fights against the laws of nature is stupid.

    Two, she lets her imagination run wild, creating plots and scenarios that are not real but yet believes them to be real. She will then expect that everyone else will just jump aboard and believe her nonsense.

    Three, she allows other people to manipulate her and she takes on their point of views without thinking about it and coming to her own conclusions.

    Four, instead of dealing with her life she sits and cries and waits for others (husband, sister-in-law) to interject themselves and fix things for her.

    Five, she thinks the more she has to say and the louder that she is the more people will believe her story.

    I will end with this. I think Jacquelyn DOES have a good heart. However, when you don’t think for yourself and allow others to manipulate you it doesn’t matter what your heart condition is. This is probably where Jacquelyn fairs largest in the stoopid category. She has the potential to be a wonderful person but weather it is through her own mind or someone else’s, she manages to suck the good right out of herself. She allows delusions or twisted points of views to overcome her natural good nature. How stupid is THAT!

  21. An Ode to BubbaJax:

    May your tweets ever be loony,
    May your wine bottle never run dry,
    Perhaps one day you shall see the light,
    When pigs finally learn to fly!!!

    So long, screw ‘ya,
    See you in St. Lou-ya!

    • You are the poet laureate. maybe you can read this at Jax coronation! Ms. SH can we have a planning blog so we can carefully craft Jax ‘s ceremony? LOL! JK.

      • Hey, I would gladly type it up in fancy calligraphy, blow it up poster-size, frame it and FedEx it to Bubba’s front doorstep if I could. Maybe I’ll earn a special personalized “DM” from her! :)

  22. Glad to know that Jax got the title this year!
    But this is the only post ive been able to post and see comments on, for many days now and its so annoying, cause im so curios! :(
    Anybody else that still have these problems or am I the only one?

    • I know the site (and wordpress in general) was having glitchy problems. I’m sorry! Hmmm… Are you able to see any other posts right now?

      What browser are you using and is it up to date?

      • No not at all. Only this. :(
        About the browser… I really dont know what im doing, that is my husbands job. ;)
        But you recommend me updating something? …Ive have been ignoring some messages about updating, bc i was in the middle of something….well that backfired if this is my own fault :/ A little annoyed with myself now, but aleast it sounds like I can fix it….or else I have faith in my husband can do it.
        Thanks for helping me finding out what the problem could be!

  23. To me , the funniest thing of all? If she read about this award, do you think she could figure out why she “won”? Seriously doubt she’d have a clue.

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