October 4, 2012 Bravo…
“It’s a big secret! Don’t tell ANYONE that I got a nose job! Or my lips filled… or extensions… or that Richie got some new teeth… or that my sister yells like a moose!”
Some big secrets were revealed on Sunday evening.
Obviously this was a very tense situation as we haven’t been all together for a year. It was bound to be intense, emotional, and passionate. I didn’t even get a chance to settle in when Andy Cohen called me out on my nose job right at the start! You can’t believe how many tweets I’ve received over having my nose fixed. Interestingly, it’s really no big deal for me. I never tried to hide it, but quite frankly it wasn’t something I chose to do while we were filming. I know some ladies choose to have procedures as part of their story line, and I commend them for it. However it just wasn’t what I wanted at this time. Andy has asked me numerous times on camera, and I’ve told him I did it for cosmetic reasons, which I’ve never denied. I just wanted the youthful look I once had, and I did not blame it on any medical issues. NOTE Yikes!! If KomaKathy paid her plastic surgeon actual C-A-S-H money to get her “youthful look” she once had, KomaKathy needs to call her plastic surgeon’s office immediately… and demand her money back!
Andy Cohen “called out” KomaKathy’s new nose back in May on WWHL…this was no big “secret!”
The funny thing about plastic surgery though is that some people openly admit it like I did and others claim they’ve have nothing done when it is so obvious that they have. I say what’s the big deal? If you’re really curious about what I mean, you can check out my high school photos on Bravotv.com. NOTE: Andy Cohen “called her out” is not “openly admitting” … really only one thing comes to mind re KomaKathy seeking her youth…
The decision to plump up my lips was so last minute. I was having a facial and decided to give it a shot. It was only 10 days prior to the reunion, so it was fresh but they’re not permanent. In fact they are already back to the way they were before. I think the big reaction from everyone was caused by a combination of the nose, lips, the extra glam makeup, and the lighter hair. Oh and I can’t forget the extra-long hair extensions. That’s one of the great things about being a girl, one day I can do a little more primping and prepping for an event and the next day go back to my apron and ponytail. That was my favorite part of working in the beauty business, the endless possibilities. NOTE: KomaKathy has kept her NJ cosmetology license current. Keeping a license current (any license: cosmetology, real estate, car dealer) does not mean that you are up-to-date with the profession you chose to take classes to acquire that license… it just means that you got a license and had the good sense to not let it lapse!
Another big dark secret — you all found out that I’m such a bad person, because I didn’t have my first designer handbag until I was 40 years old! Guilty! It wasn’t something that I really wanted. (If it was, don’t you think that Richie would have gotten them for me?) I guess my priorities are little different than some. For me, having our family’s future secured and investing in my children’s college education was just more important. NOTE: If it’s something that KomaKathy REALLY didn’t want, why buy it? KomaKathy probably didn’t know the difference between “Grucci” and “Gucci”!! RHOBH’s Ken’s words apply again! No one cares…
I heard what Teresa had said about me behind my back from several different people, and I never wanted to believe it. She told people that I lived in a “sh—- little house,” and I could not believe it until I actually saw it in print from an interview that she gave, that makes a similar reference. She didn’t even deny that she said these things at the reunion, when she had denied it numerous other accusations. For the record, I’ve always been thrilled with my home. Love lives here. However, everyone has a right to their own opinion. NOTE: Seriously??? The burglar balls for KK to talk about ANYONE “talking behind HER back”! Watch the episodes of the RHONJ for yourself… you will see that KK NEVER says anything DIRECTLY to the person she’s slamming. KK leaves that all up to her convenient double, CameraKathy!
Now on to much more serious things.
First of all, I want to go on record that I’m not proud of the dark place that I went to when I lashed out at Teresa. It’s not in my nature to allow myself to react so harshly, and I feel bad about my behavior. I will always be accountable for my wrong-doings, as I have in the past, and I will continue to do so. Unfortunately, this time I reacted after Teresa had pushed me to my limit. How many more chances and benefits of the doubts am I going to give her? There are a few things that I hold sacred in my life: my children, my family, and most of all my marriage. You have all seen that of these things, my marriage is the basis of my life. NOTE: KK’s only purpose on the RHONJ was as a buffer between the carnage the RHONJ producers had set up and expected between Tree and MeGo… and hopefully, the powers that be at Bravo have found that KK is not necessary.
How dare she try to pick away at my marriage and then throw her mother under the bus and say that she is the one who told her this? Why would she betray her mother’s confidence and get her involved in this? A lie is a lie. Trust me, if the Pope himself was spreading lies about my marriage, I would still do anything to stop it. NOTE: Again… no one cares!
I sat back for two seasons straight and did not allow Teresa’s jabs and insults about my character to get to me, because I knew what she was trying to do. It’s called deflection. She has attacked the most important relationships in my life — my sister Rosie, made comments about my kids, and now my marriage and my deceased father. The ironic thing is, the week this episode aired Richie and I had just celebrated our 21st wedding anniversary. So viewers, how is what she is saying relevant now after 21 years of a solid marriage? Why would she even bring that up at this time? NOTE: KomaKathy has zero relevance on the RHONJ… the real reason she “sat back for two seasons”… IMO… was that she knew and KNOWS that she’s just there for the ride, riding on both Tree and MeGo’s coattails.
Who the hell wants to see MORE of this??? BLEEEEECH!
It’s unfortunate that once again Teresa automatically went to that place and thought I would reveal the nature of our past conversations we had years ago about marriage. I would never reveal any “girl talk” that we had in the past and betray her confidentiality. What made her think I would so quickly divulge that private information when I never did before and have no intention of doing now? She went for my jugular and she pushed me over the edge! NOTE: Excuses, excuses! Did KomaKathy get lessons in passive-aggressiveness from BubbaJax??
I said before that I wasn’t proud of my behavior, and I stand by that. I’ve always had respect for my aunt and uncle. As you can see from Season 3, after the fashion show my aunt attacked me after I had a private conversation with Teresa. I understood where she was coming from, and I didn’t even say a word to her in my defense. I allowed this to happen because she thought she was protecting her daughter.
When I was first interviewed for RHONJ, I went to discuss the possibilities and my intentions with my aunt and uncle.
KomaKathy explains WHY she became a RHONJ…
I had a very long, nice talk with my aunt and she agreed with me. We came to an amiable understanding. I had also hoped to speak to my uncle that day but he just walked out. While I admit that “coward” was a very mean thing to say, I was so disappointed in how he acted towards me. I would never raise my voice to either of them, and I never have. My uncle and I had always had a respectful relationship, but make no mistake, the relationship of an uncle and a niece is nothing like that of a father and daughter. How dare Teresa speculate on the relationship I had with my father, and the type of father he was to me and my siblings. That statement really sent me over the edge, as it did for Rosie.
GayRosie… sent “over the edge”…
I’m going to give you a little background. My father was the first man that both Rosie and I had ever loved. My father came to this country partially handicapped at a young age, not knowing the language. He worked incredibly hard in spite of his disability to make a life for himself. After he married my mom, they both worked selflessly to make a life and provide for their five children. They learned the language, they kept to themselves and were honorable, hardworking people who were respected by everyone. My father lived and died for his family, as well as his extended family. He never cheated anyone or hurt anyone. Anyone who knew him would say the same. He was an honorable man, and I will not let anyone disrespect his reputation or his memory.
When my father got sick with leukemia, our family watched him suffer for over seven years until he came down with lung cancer. At this point, we really watched him deteriorate. I was there with my mom as much as I could be during the day, but Rosie lived with them and watched day in and day out as my father slipped further and further away. Until you live with the pain of watching a loved one, especially a powerhouse like your father, suffer so severely, you can’t know what the pain feels like. NOTE: ANOTHER Housewife claiming that no one else in the world has gone through anything as they have!
Even though it has been almost ten years, the wound will never heal. There’s not a day that goes by that we don’t think of him and miss him. When Teresa’s insinuations about my father’s love for us, his own children, came out, that’s when she hurt Rosie and me the most. This brought both of us to a very bad place. It does not excuse or justify our actions, but we are all human, and everyone has their breaking point. I hope that watching the next parts of the reunion will shed a little bit more light. That’s all for now.
See you again this Sunday,
Kathy
(Thanks to SH reader “PG”!!)
So Kathy had “girl talk” about wanting to end her marriage.
This thing is why make such a big deal over it. Anyone who has been married for a period of time has probably talked divorce. Who cares if you are still together?
I meant who cares about talking about divorce if you are now still together.
Exactly. Make you wonder what she wanted to divorce him over. I think we can all agree that cheating opportunities are just not there for Rich so wonder what it was? Ya know, does Rich have a mugshot in his past? What?
I lost both my parents to cancer. Watch them both take the long demoralizing path to the other side. Makes me treasure my aunties uncles and cousins so much more.
I am so sorry to hear of your lost. I could not imagine. both parents. We just lost my uncle recently to cancer. Its hard to watch. I dont ever even recalling a time that I did ANYTHING that would require my aunts or uncles to have to get on to me. Momma used to be so confounded that I was such a lil angel with them. Never would I want them to ever have to say “you should be ashamed….” Kathy is really not a good person.
Its been 10 years now. And even though they died a very long suffering death and i completely adored them. They were human as Kathies parents are. Her and Rosies reaction was completely ridiculous. Death does not make them a saint.
And further more… (lol) her blog explaining it makes for even more BLAH BLAH.
In the words of trees mother. YOA SHUDDA ME SHAMED URSELF
That was how I read this one, too, Ladies. Doesn’t it even make it worse that she called Teresa’s mom a f*#(in liar when she was telling the truth by Kathy’s own admission. I still say it was her chance to get some attention and she went for it. Everything about this woman annoys me.
We lost my mom to cancer when I was in high school. That doesn’t give me the right to call my cousins’ parents liars and cowards. I never thought I could dislike Froggie more, but I do.
I am sorry about your mom Antonella. You are right Froggy had no business saying that stuff about the Gorgas. And she never apologized for it either. She is a bad person.
I’m so sorry, Antonella!!
Perhaps it was the Exxon Mobil debacle?
i hate komakathy…period.
Kathy, Kathy, Kathy, Spin it any way you like but your aunt and uncle will never see you the same way again. Stick with cousin JoGo because I’m guessing Tre is done with you. FYI: “Goddess” type food might be champagne, oysters, caviar….but a DIY cannoli kit? Not so much. Meow.
Also, when I hear the word goddess I don’t think Kathy.
On video WWHL, Was rosie trying to impersonate Flavor Flav Flavor Flav?
Ok, so Tre made me do it. The devil made me do it. That little voice in my head made me do it. I am a dumb bitch and that made me do it.
Did anyone catch in the tale end of the exchange KomaKathy says Teresa’s dad wouldn’t be in this country if it wasn’t for her dad. More one upmanship
No? I totally missed that with Rosie acting like a rabid animal, but I guess that was OK, too? I am totally going to check that out tonight! Thanks for the info!
What I want to know is what are burglar balls?
These people are completely ridiculous. My family says all kinds of things about each other and we never get our panties in a bunch the way these people do. Please, really, coward and liar is something to get that upset about? Completely ridiculous.