Comments From 2011: RHONJ Melissa Gorga

comments on Bravo re Melissa

Stoopid Housewives  Wed, Jun 29, 2011 at 8:39 PM
Submitted by Las Vegas Viewer on June 29, 2011.

Fans?  What Fans?

By reading all the responses on your blog, everyone hates you and your sister Lysol.

Submitted by Rational Viewer on June 29, 2011.

I’ve said it before – NO ONE thinks Teresa is perfect – there’s a difference between liking people despite their flaws and imperfections and being totally appalled and disgusted by a person’s attitude and behaviors – the latter applies to you!

I couldn’t imagine in a million years anybody in my family going on tv and making fun or talking smack about my financial situation – absolutely shows how classless and low you are – that’s why the viewers don’t like you, not because people are blind to Teresa.

Submitted by Melanie23 on June 29, 2011.


Why are your sisters in EVERY show? Really, Lyssa NEEDED to watch you put make-up on? That was necessary? Could RHONJ get in more boring with these two new cast mates?! One is a fame-whore and makes no bones about her goals to become a famous singer..that’s a joke!
Why slam Teresa right after you two made ammends? Why bring up that she cannot afford a Nanny and uses YOUR Mother-in-law as one, but YOU pay your bills so YOU can afford one.. a HUGE dig! It is obvious you want your Husband to be estranged from his family. That’s so sad and shame on Bravo for allowing you to USE this show as a “stepping stone”.

Submitted by lisa lisa on June 29, 2011.

I can’t wait for your song to drop.
I can’t wait to see it flop.
You will never be on top.
You cannot win us over until you stop.

You don’t know the definition of goldigger.
It’s someone who is a quitter.
You don’t work. You are now just a shopper.
Who cares how many jobs you had.
You lost your dad, married a rich lad, have a new pad. And now you are so glad.

Melissa, You are a hypocrit
I hope someday you will become legit.
Right now you seem to manipulate.
We all see through you and all your hate.

Free lyrics. Go make a song out of that!

Submitted by Naynay on June 29, 2011.

Melissa, you and your husband are a disgrace to this show. Your manipulation of your ignorant, sex-driven husband is so transparent. I truly feel sorry for you both and Kathy because you are delusional. What respectable man speaks to his sister, in front of his Goddaughter, with such venom? It seems to the viewers that you and your possy are the garbage! Start taking some responsibility for your immature actions and reevaluate your goals and values in life.

Submitted by buck on June 29, 2011.


i have always like rhwonj but this season i s off because of you, joe, kathy and your sisters. I thought they got rid of the bad egg meaning Danielle but they put several back in. You are such a back stabber. I dont believe one minute you were thinking with your eyes. You are a mean spirited person and you need to stop saying Thank you Jesus because you are using his name in vain because you truly do not act like a christian because a christian would not try to break up her husbands family. I think you are spoiled brat and the more I watch the show the more I dislike yourways. You really need to check yourself.

Submitted by Stephanie L on June 29, 2011.

You and Kathy are the biggest lowlifes I have ever seen, aside from your sister! Who goes on a show to make someone look bad? You and Kathy! You should be ashamed of yourselves. I will not watch RHONJ if you two stay on. You and Kathy are what happens to Jersey Shore cast when they grow up. Wait, they are WAY MORE classier an you, Kathy and your nasty sisters!

Submitted by AA_AZ on June 29, 2011.

I hope this show can help you view yourself and your family feud from a outsiders point of view. Fighting with family is exhausting and hurts. Good luck to you, Teresa, Joey and Juicy Joe :)

Submitted by scaredtowatch on June 29, 2011.

I think you should probably just stop talking while on camera. You are the reason people think what they do about N.J. You say you don’t want to argue with Teresa yet you talk about her all the time. The show was better without you. Good luck to you!

Submitted by Not a Fan on June 29, 2011.

Since you have joined the show I can’t even watch more then 15mintures of it. I used to never miss an episode but your arrogance, filthy mouth, and family destroying antics are something that I cannot watch. You should probably hire a PR agent who oversees your Bravo interviews, and blogs at least then you might actually have a chance of redeeming yourself. And your sisters, if you have sisters like that who needs enemies.

Submitted by RHofeverything fan on June 29, 2011.

Wow, why is everyone so mean with their comments. It’s ok if you don’t like the girl but you don’t have to be so harsh!

Submitted by TEXAS HOUSEWIFE on June 29, 2011.

I AGREE, BRAVO PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE…get the fame wanna be newbies out of the show…I have lost complete interest since they started and I am a loyal viewer since day one of the housewifes….PLEase!!!!!

Submitted by Barbara in NY on June 29, 2011.

You did some press, you say, in LA. Why? For what possible reason? Why is the media interested in interviewing you? I don’t get it.

Submitted by Natalia B. on June 29, 2011.

Melissa, stop while you can please! I don’t think you are a bad person, but its so evident that you’ve been wanting to sing and be famous since you were little! I can understand how it must have been hard to see your sister in law get all the fame, and to not be able to put yourself in the spotlight, and maybe even want to blame her for it. I get it. However, you got what you wanted now, let it go! Stop breaking up the Gorga family, you finally got your big break! Now if you succeed or fail its all up to you… This time try not to blame Teresa for it, or put things in your husband’s head. Once you become that genuine person trust me everyone will forget all this and love you a lot for being so real! Ps. Pls stop waiting for Teresa’s blogs to write yours and address whatever she writes, its annoying!

Submitted by Rose sal on June 29, 2011.

Melissa what comes around goes around look @ the show this will make you think not with you’r eyes put with your brain god gave you who whats you as a sister or sister in law your mother in law see right through you you cant act,your ignorant,selfish are economy is’nt good instead of you bashing teresa help her that what god would do. do you believe in god it doesn’t look that way take singing lessons you dont know the words on tv this make look like idiot who pick you coud’nt they find anyone i hate the show now it not fun any more.

Submitted by visitor1023 on June 29, 2011.

Hmm… I wonder who told Danielle that Theresa hadn’t visited her nephew at the hospital? You? probably

Submitted by Dolores T on June 29, 2011.

I SOOOOOOOOOOOO hope you and Kathy with a K are not asked back next season!

Submitted by ViewerHI on June 29, 2011.

You and Kathy should be Teresa’s assistants.

Submitted by Ashley A on June 29, 2011.

Jmetani96, you must be one of Melissa’s sisters…either that or you are just not that bright…

Submitted by Cali girl on June 29, 2011.

I am so TEAM T, but I can’t help feel bad for you. I know you never expected for all these hurtful comments.
I see a beautiful young women on TV, but when you open your mouth it’s all bad. Take some time and think about what you are going to say before you say it. As for the SISTERS I get it …They love their baby sister, but it’s not helping you when they are always bad mouthing Teresa.
It was a great idea bringing the pictures :) it was nice seeing that at one time there was love all in the family.
Good Luck Melissa and remember “think before you speak”

Submitted by Patrick C. on June 29, 2011.

I am going to be honest with you, I can’t stand watching you. You, your sister, and Kathy are all mean spirits who can’t stop bashing Teresa because they are unhappy with themselves.

Don’t even get me started on your husband Joe. He is dusgusting. He has no respect for his parents and his own sister Teresa. You and him don’t make a cute couple at all, and your kids should be taken away from you.

You are a creepy witch who only cares about herself. I am tired of you being on an ego trip, and thinking that you are as high as mighty. Face it honey, you are one selfish idiot.

You and Kathy should be ashamed at how you treat Teresa. You two keep saying that she needs to own up to what she did. SHE DIDN’T DO ANYTHING. The whole fight at the baptism was all Joe and Lysa’s fault.

Teresa is trying to bring the family back together, and all you do is complain and lie. Don’t make excuses for yourself, you where rolling your eyes at Teresa, and it is unexceptable. She is your sister in-law you should have lost of respect fro her and not treat her like you do on the show.

Submitted by Jmetani96 on June 29, 2011.

i cant believe all of these losers cant see that Teresa is a jealous person and you can tell. She is always saying “oh not on my end..” yeah well who flipped the table like a psycho? and she says she walked away at the Christening but we all know she was throwing more gas in the fire
I like Melissa shes my favorite She is not with the BS like Teresa and you people who come on here to bash are seriously rude and cold hearted Leave her alone
she is more successful than u

Submitted by Ashley A on June 29, 2011.

Here is a tip, no one is going to buy your records if they don’t like you…example.. Heidi Montag

Submitted by Imbusyrollingmyeyes on June 29, 2011.

I really don’t know if this show is scripted or not, but one thing is for sure, you are either a very bad actress or you are a wannabe. I am going with….(sorry i was rolling my eyes, had to think)..wannabe. You are used to being the nucleous of your families attentions when you were growing up, and now you do not know how to step back and let others, such as Theresa, be in it with you. You are a “Brat guastato” and used to all the attention for yourself. Well in the Gorga’s world, it is Theresa that is the nucleous and that is just the way it is, so deal with it. That one sister of yours, Lysa, is a stereo-typical Jersey girl. The makeup, the accent and the hair – does she wear polyester too? I am getting a rash just looking at her. What a “Vecchia capra”.

Submitted by Jubs on June 29, 2011.

Melissa…you’re just used to being the baby of the family and having the spot light on you! Now that you’ve joined a family where their lives don’t revolve around you, you can’t take it! GET OVER IT!! You’re as fake as your sister and you’re crazy!

Submitted by ines hill on June 29, 2011.

i think you should be famous or someone of value before you start acting like you are a celebrity,having a blog and need to get over aren’t that great at singing and not half as pretty as some of the artists that are out there.try to be a good mom,wife,sister,daughter,neice,cousin,sister-in-law and friend first.after you work on that maybe you can do something useful with your life.good luck.

Submitted by Ladt Lori L on June 29, 2011.

So you already wrote a blog for this week’s show and you thought you’d tell us about your weekend? Looking at these comments you might want to stick to short to the point blogs. Unlike facebook you cant delete the bad comments and leave the good ones…..

Submitted by LouisianaGirl on June 29, 2011.

How ironic that you started pushing your “singing” in the first episode and now you’re all over L.A. promoting your first single. I guess we know why you joined the show.

Submitted by SB21 on June 29, 2011.

Wow Melissa…It’s amazing that you have “fans”. It seems the overwhelming opinion of you is that you are fake, manipulative and a liar. Bravo really screwed up this time adding you and Kathy to the show. I used to be a fan of the show until you and Kathy came on. Bring back Dina Manzo!

Submitted by Erica DeMasi on June 29, 2011.

Where did you get antonia’s dress that she wore for her recital the white one with sequins and feathers?It is so cute and I’d really like to have one.

Submitted by shellyge on June 29, 2011.

You think with your eyes?? Oh Jay Mohr..what fun you could have with that line. Lame blog as usual Melissa. Congrats you’ve pulled the wool over Caroline’s eyes…big deal she’s a snooze fest anyway.

Submitted by Mary87 on June 29, 2011.

Don’t listen to all this negative blogs. You have no reason to be jealous of Teresa. You are prettier, have a way nicer looking husband, more beautiful nice decorated house and you as far as I know are not filing for bankruptcy. I do not understand why everyone is saying you are jealous. Of what???

Submitted by ohmygosh1 on June 29, 2011.

I have never seen anyone insult the whole city of L.A. the way you did in one sentence… bad food, bad water. You are a wannabe Teresa and you will never live up to her so give it up.

Submitted by NJ OC Fan on June 29, 2011.


Since you joined RHWNJ I have really liked you especially since I have always been annoyed with Teresa’s selfishness, ignorance, and desire for attention so I understood your position. However I do see Teresa making a sincere effort to put the past behind you and work things out for the sake of your families. She has admitted that you have both been guilty of tit for tat with each other. Although you have been telling your husband you will do anything to make amends with his family you came off as a bit confrontational in your discussion with Teresa. And you asked her ‘what did I ever do to you’ rather than assume at least some responsibility for this ongoing feud. The eye rolling is a very dismissive act, and very disrespectful when Teresa mentions her parents. You were not thinking, you were reacting.

Another thing – your sister Lyssa. I have a sister who I love more than anything and would not allow anyone to talk about her, so I will try to show you the same respect. I understand she is your sister and your confidant however she is not exactly encouraging you to make up with Teresa from her eye rolling and her comments. I am sure your sister only has your best interests at heart however sometimes you have to think for yourself. You you’re your husband to consider and his happiness and his family as well. And to avoid the family drama between you and the Guidices from both being on this show, you should consider not giving your sister so much air time based on how this greed and fame can tear a family apart.

I believe you are a good person but sometimes you act a bit immature when it appears that you are being spiteful and want to have the last say when it comes to Teresa. I am still not a big Teresa fan. So far Jaqueline is the only one that has never disappointed me.

Submitted by Maggie5 on June 29, 2011.

I send my teenagers to their room when they “think with their eyes” and sigh, and “tch” through their teeth, and also when they whine, pick fights and bicker.

They still have better behavior than you do.

Submitted by NJ OC Fan on June 29, 2011.


Since you joined RHWNJ I have really liked you especially since I have always been annoyed with Teresa’s selfishness, ignorance, and desire for attention so I understood your position. However I do see Teresa making a sincere effort to put the past behind you and work things out for the sake of your families. She has admitted that you have both been guilty of tit for tat with each other. Although you have been telling your husband you will do anything to make amends with his family you came off as a bit confrontational in your discussion with Teresa. And you asked her ‘what did I ever do to you’ rather than assume at least some responsibility for this ongoing feud. The eye rolling is a very dismissive act, and very disrespectful when Teresa mentions her parents. You were not thinking, you were reacting.

Another thing – your sister Lyssa. I have a sister who I love more than anything and would not allow anyone to talk about her, so I will try to show you the same respect. I understand she is your sister and your confidant however she is not exactly encouraging you to make up with Teresa from her eye rolling and her comments. I am sure your sister only has your best interests at heart however sometimes you have to think for yourself. You you’re your husband to consider and his happiness and his family as well. And to avoid the family drama between you and the Guidices from both being on this show, you should consider not giving your sister so much air time based on how this greed and fame can tear a family apart.

I believe you are a good person but sometimes you act a bit immature when it appears that you are being spiteful and want to have the last say when it comes to Teresa. I am still not a big Teresa fan. So far Jaqueline is the only one that has never disappointed me.

Submitted by Tampagrl on June 29, 2011.

Sorry Melissa, it doesn’t take much to really dislike you. Teresa, Caroline and Jacqueline are true , honest , fun loving people. You are a sad individual who truly doesn’t know how to love. Even though your husband it not likable at all, I can bet that he turned on his sister because of YOU. There are alot of rumors going around about “your home”, so I wouldn’t suggest throwing stones in a glass house ;- )

Submitted by 346 Shelly on June 29, 2011.

I have to say, with regards to Teresa, you do not always seem too sincere. However, When I watch just you and your family, not discussing Teresa, I have to say, I really do like you a lot. You’re a young wife who truly has it all! And that is something the show needs. Especially for many women who marry young and may not transition well into the domesticated role, you do a very nice job. You’re fun to watch and you are HOTT.

Submitted by Whatever dude on June 29, 2011.

Hey, in the George Lopez Show, that character used the exact SAME excuse to his wife. He was “thinking” also. You must be just like him or love that show too!! I am just guessing but I bet you are the type of person who wants everyone to come to you first and when they don’t you feel you are being slighted. With all of Theresa’s faults, I somehow side with her and feel you and Kathy are just pathetic with your adgenda. And I am guessing A LOT of people are siding with Theresa after watching you, Kathy, and your miserable sisters

Submitted by ViewerinNewOrleans on June 29, 2011.

P.S. Tell Lysa to keep her head up too. She’s just trying to protect her baby sister. The Teresa fanatics have gone wild on the whole cast this week. But you all know what we at home don’t get to see. It speaks volumes that Jackie and Caroline are on your side over thier long time friend.

Submitted by Noire on June 29, 2011.

Its obvious that you and Kathy came on this show to try to A) Achieve fame and success (while riding on the coattails of Teresa) B) Air your dirty laundry, and C) Attempt to sway the viewers into turning against Teresa. Shame on you. You would not be on TV it Teresa had not done it first. I may have less money than you and Joey, but I am so incredibly lucky that my brother would NEVER go on TV specifically to attempt to make me look bad. The amazing thing is that its completely backfiring on you!!!! So many of these comments are negative towards you and Kathy, and all the while Teresa is getting positive and supportive comments on her blogs. That must really piss you off huh? Maybe you should try some self reflection deary, because we’re not buying it, we’re not buying you, and your little plan isnt working!

Submitted by desrert rose3 on June 29, 2011.

Your comment to Jacqueline about “eat a cookie you need it for your skinny ass”
was so disrespectful after she graciously invited you into her home to meet Teresa was offensive.. It flew out of your mouth without thinking..and showed your real unfiltered nasty persona. Your jealous of everyone from the people in Malibu you dissed just for living there. The comment about teresa shoes was no better. You had gucci luggage in a pic you posted on facebook. Hope it was all worth destroying a family for your shot a singing. hope your husband is proud.

Submitted by ACamm on June 29, 2011.

Melissa… I’m so disgusted by your fakeness! And you trap yourself into lies in every single episode! You tell Teresa you want to start over and not bring up the past… then you go marching to your hateful sister and bash Teresa to her! Who is your sister to get in the middle of this family issue?? She should have NO SAY about Teresa or Juicy Joe. You are a constant backstabber and are so sweet to everyones face and then you turn around and start bashing them. Your husband has a mother AND a sister who don’t like you. Why do you think that is?? Because you’re FAKE and you want to be the center of attention! Guess what? You’re NOT! I can’t believe you are so hateful to Teresa behind her back… yet you join the same show that shes on so that you can try and become a singer and sell champagne?? You’re trying to jump on the Ramona Pinot Grigio and the Bethanny Skinny Girl Margarita bandwagon… and its so disgusting to me. I want to fast forward every single time that you come on the screen so that I can see the REAL girls Caroline, Teresa, and Jaqueline. Oh Bravo… BRING BACK DINA!!! :)

Submitted by ViewerinNewOrleans on June 29, 2011.

First of all, you can write your blog whenever you want. All of these people complaining will still wait with baited breath to read it. Congrats on all your success. The media loves you, Kathy loves you, Caroline loves you, and Jacqueline loves you. That speaks volumes.

You rolled your eyes because you know Teresa is full of crap. I sincerely hope your kids get to spend more time with their father’s side of the family, but sometimes its like that in families. Some grandmothers stick closer to their daughters and their daughters’ kids; sad but true.

Good luck to you and your gorgeous family. Xoxo.

Submitted by FlyergirlPA on June 29, 2011.

Very disappointed in you! I was hoping you would be good to your word, but apparently, you aren’t. Do you watch and see what you say on TV? On the one hand you say you want peace and the family to be together and yet, with your crazy sisters and your cousin Kathy, you bash your husband’s family every chance you get. You really do need to stop! I am starting to believe that you are just in this for the attention. Stop bashing your in laws! Your sisters really should not comment at all. As for your cousin, she really should be ashamed of herself. She too is so fake.

Submitted by Verde on June 29, 2011.

FINALLY! A blog where you didn’t tear Teresa down. I’m amazed. Guess all the negtive comments you’ve been getting are starting to get thru your thick skull. Enough! If you seriously want peace, then stop with the eye rolling…. BS that it’s how you think. ROFLMAO at that. Stop the crap talk with your sister and in your personal camera time. Also stop feeding your husband’s insecurities by constantly putting his family down and keeping the ugly hate alive. YOU can put a stop to all the crap that’s going on. YOU have the power. It’s time YOU put on your big girl panties and stop the madness. Apologize for all the nasty hateful things you’ve said and done on Bravo and in the press and just get over yourself!

I hope you do move to LA like I’ve heard rumored and leave RHNJ. You and your sidekick sister and cousin in lawa Kathy have ruined a fun show with all your backstabbing and attention seeking. I’d rather watch Daniells and her sick twisted mess than watch you and two faced Kathy constantly bash Teresa. How petty and jealous can you be? Sad, very sad.

Submitted by baileyboop on June 29, 2011.

I really want to believe you Melissa but their is another person on my shoulder saying “bullsh_t”. Just accept the fact that your husbands family does NOT revolve around you.

Submitted by fanwench on June 29, 2011.

i agree with the majority, i dont believe you. I want to!! Really I do!! I want to see all the kids playing together!! But your sister!!!! Your sister is so annoying!!!! She has absolutely no business at all in Joe’s and Teresa’s family. She is not part of their family, she is a part of yours only. So all this has nothing to do with her. She needs to butt out. How unlucky you are that you have a nanny to do your work. How unlucky for you that you dont have to take care of your kids. Yes Terasa has issues, no one denies that. Her mom watches her kids, so what??? Alot of grandparents watch their grandchildren when they go out or to work. And teresa does work, unlike you. But like i said, i think i could like you if you stop being a hypocrite. And YOUR SISTER!!! Wow your sister, tell her to butt out please, it has nothing to do with her. YOu’re a big girl now, you can be away from her. How would you like it if you and your sister were having issues and your husband kept telling you little comments like the ones you say to Joe?? What do you think of that?? One thing i tell my kids, treat others the way you want to be treated, be nice to others no matter how mean they are, dont talk mean to or about other people, because it all comes crashing down on you in the end.

Submitted by holy cannoli on June 29, 2011.

Wow no mention of your nasty comments in your talking head or to your sister?? Most people have seen you , Joey, and Kathy for what you all are..Not very nice people, family should never do to family what the 3 of you have done, especially on national tv..Shame on you all.

Submitted by Tommy93654ca on June 29, 2011.

Melissa very different tone in this blog,I hope it stays this way … I hope what u say it true, When Teresa gave feedback on your talk wit her friends she seemed relieved and somewhat hopefull that it was a step in bringing the family together , you on the other hand go back to your sister (who played a part in the christening fiasco ) and spewed nothing but negativity and in other words told her it was a waste of time, that says alot and shows u like the distance between Teresa and her brother and mother , oh then u start telling your sister bout Teresa and not having a nanny but that she has your mother in law. I hope u realize but u just kinda disrespected your mother in law by referring to her as a nanny rather than a loving grandmother , I agree wit Teresa you need to show some love to your in laws not jus by trying to get recipes but by spending time wit them and not rolling your eyes when the are mentioned as amazing people.


Submitted by Macel on June 29, 2011.

Melissa, you are the worst SIL anyone could ever have. I feel sad for Teresa, JOey, and their parents. You know exactly what you are doing, trying to destroy Joeys family. You are so evil. Your husband will realize his mistake for marrying you and will loose you and have his blood family back. You are nothing with out the Grogas and you damn know it, so are your nossy, butt kissing sisters.

Submitted by Billye on June 29, 2011.

You are a trouble maker! You are rude and you egg your husband into having bad feeling toward his sister. You are not helping. You are a snake.

Hello – any one there?

Submitted by ansley on June 29, 2011.

melissa, the only way to get your husband’s family to like you while staying on teresa’s good side is to just NOT GET INVOLVED. Your problem is that you are trying to hard to fit in with the Guidice’s, naming you daughter after your mother-in-law is more than enough. Take it from someone who went through the same problem ! Leave them alone for a while and you’ll be sure to see how they’ll soon start to miss you.
p.s. try to get something on your own, your husband is there for you but your too pretty to be in the house all day taking care of kids ! keep doing ya thing love u girl !

Submitted by mena on June 29, 2011.

Melissa is the one with the money issues! Always trying to rub Teresa’s nose in tit. Melissa needs to grow up, Big time

Submitted by Josie541 on June 29, 2011.

You need to get down on your hands and knees and thank Teresa. If it was not for her, no one would even know your name. She put you on the map, show her some gratitude.

Submitted by SS39 on June 29, 2011.

I so want to believe what you say, I just have such a hard time as you say one thing and then do another – ALL THE TIME! Did you really just say that you are not rolling your eyes, but that you “think” with them – oh come on!

Submitted by jayh on June 29, 2011.

i thimk u realized that ur not fooling anyone and that why u held back this time on bashing teresa. how can u say that she brought up something that had nothing to do with u two.. When you brought up kathy that had absolutely nothng to do with you and you didnt see teresa trying to bring u down. all she said was that she was not going to discuss her cousin relationship with u.. you in the other hand had to bring up fact that she is having financial issues.. melissa, may god forgive you for the women that you are… i much rather my mom take care of my kids any day than a nanny you barely know. you always seen to sneak a smart comment about how teresa has no money.. if only you can see how those comment make you look.. groww up.. one day ull go through some financial issues ( because everyone does at a point in time) and ull regret all the hurtfull things you said to those who arent as priviledged as you are.. i think teresa was right!! you are a gold digger.. cause thats all you can brag about.. wake up and smell the roses.. without you husband youll still be waiting tables…

Submitted by Really Jersey on June 29, 2011.

Some how I just don ‘t believe you. You may want to look at the postings on your earlier blog. You aren’t very well received, and now you’re name dropping as well?Big deal..Ryan Seacrest. woo hoo, send in the clowns.
Teresa was right GOLD DIGGER !!!!!!!!

Submitted by kclayla on June 29, 2011.

Everything you do is so transparent. You were in LA trying to work on your music career. That is why you did this show. You didn’t care about trashing your in laws in the process. I thought Kathy seemed nice, but she also seemed to do the show to push her food career. I feel bad for your in laws, and even your silly husband.
Get your priorities straight.

Submitted by ProudFinn on June 29, 2011.

You said you wanted to get over the “pettiness” of you and your husband’s troubles with Teresa. So what did you do? Went right to talking trash about T with your sister. You are such a phony.

Submitted by me702 on June 29, 2011.

Why do you insist that you are the one caught in the middle of a sibling feud? It is obvious that this whole ordeal is between you and Teresa. If too can resolve your problems then this will all go away so what does that tell you. I really do have to hand it to you or your PR people because you have changed your tune from your first blog to now and even in other interviews. I am really insulted when you think you can pull one over the viewers for example your transparent agenda. And the saying goes you communicate with 10% of your words and 90% with your body language and the rolling of the eyes speaks volumes.

Submitted by ErinAaa on June 29, 2011.

Sorry, but what viewers saw vs. what you wrote in your blog, are two different things. I want to like you, but…

Submitted by HWViewer on June 29, 2011.

Luv u! Kisses!

Submitted by Mari C on June 29, 2011.

Why do you then bad mouth Teresa with your sister?

Submitted by Happy Lady on June 29, 2011.

Hi Melissa!! I really like you being on the show…You are Beautiful and FIERCE!!! I enjoy watching you and your family!

Submitted by jojabanna on June 29, 2011.

Bravo removed Danielle, and she is replaced by you. You have filled those shoes nicely, and whatever it is you want to promote, good luck. Danielle tried to sing too, tried to use the show to promote herself just like you are, it didn’t work for her, it won’t work for you.

Submitted by brasil09 on June 29, 2011.

Melissa I can’t say I don’t like you, because I don’t know you. However watching you and your husband it’s like you are both fake and so is his cousin, I mean okay so you say you listen with your eyes if that is the case than why is your mouth running. ZIP IT… It’s not about self centered you. Your sisters don’t help your cause any they come across as being snakes looking for someone to just plunge their fangs in it and it’s clear that it is Teresa and Joe. BACK OFF…

Submitted by ramsey nj mom on June 29, 2011.

I guess you are making the tak show rounds to try to change your image so you can sell some records and now champagne! what a joke…..way to late, you are already revealed. Can’t wait for your 15 minutes to be over so I can get back to loving my favorite show!

Submitted by Wow Wow Wow on June 29, 2011.

MELISSA STOP BLOGGING LAST EVERY WEEK, WE ALL HAVE NOTICED IT. Melissa no one is buying your eye rolling story. You are rude and a fame whore. Take a few singing lessons, you are an average singer based on your closet debut. I am not hating on you, just being real.
Also, tired of seeing Lysa every week with her mean girl behavior and eye rolling; is she auditioning for next season? “Bravo”, Please bring back the lovely Dina and get rid of Messy Melissa her silly bitter sisters and scary Kathy

Submitted by Norma133 on June 29, 2011.

Wow Melissa you want Joe all to yourself and it’s so obvious you don’t like him close to any other woman even if it’s his own sister. You also have something against his mother are you mad that she doesn’t like you? I feel that you know you can’t win any fight against her so you pick on Teresa, for some stupid reason Joe allows you to attack her you have convinced him she does things to him, her only brother!! You are just mad Teresa and her mother do not like you. Honestly I don’t like you either and if you want to be more likable change your self-righteous attitude.

Submitted by Cat L. on June 29, 2011.

Honestly, Antonia dancing with that guy was the weirdiest thing I ever saw…she was adorable…but it was all too weird for me.

Submitted by Ar43872 on June 29, 2011.

Dont make excuses for rolling your eyes when you met with Theresa. You are very snotty and act like an angel in front of your husband. Im hoping he realizes that as he watches the season unfold….It’s funny how you say you were aggrivated when Theresa discussed your husband’s business deals! You, your husband, Kathy, her husband, and your accountant friends felt it was appropriate to discuss Theresa & Joe’s financial business over dinner??? How does that become the topic of conversation? As the Countess would say, “Money cant buy you class!”

Submitted by Deb Schneider on June 29, 2011.

You think with your eyes? Please don’t insult our intelligence…again. If there was one SHREAD of truth to that, wouldn’t we see you “thinking with your eyes” when your husband talks to you, or Kathy, or your sisters. We sure would, but we don’t… you don’t bat an eyelash when they’re talking to you, so you’ve made a liar out of yourself… again.

You and Teresa will never see eye to eye, and quite frankly, if you were my sister-in-law I wouldn’t want my kids around you at all.

Submitted by chicagomum on June 29, 2011.

Nice to see your sincere efforts for your family’s sake. Time will tell. Teresa does not seem like an easy sister in law.Your husband looked so happy with his mother, but I do see favoritism with the kids and that is very sad. Hope it all stays peaceful. The other ladies seem to like you and I think understand how Teresa can be. Can’t wait to see it all unravel.

Submitted by Viewer5 on June 29, 2011.

You think with your eyes huh? I can believe that, because it sure isn’t your brain doing the thinking.

Submitted by lovess on June 29, 2011.

Can’t help yourself your still bashing.

Submitted by Cat L. on June 29, 2011.

OMG, I roll my eyes when I’m thinking…what a crock!!

Submitted by amyinohio on June 29, 2011.


i find it amazing you somehow forgot to mention your conversation with your sister… how can you expect us, the viewers, to watch you say how much family means to you and that you’ll do anything to make it right and then go and trash talk your mother-in-law and tre? you want us to like & respect you, yet you continueously trash your husband’s family. you come across as very immature. i hope you find what you’re looking for since you decided coming on RHoNJ was your best option.

Submitted by DaizyGirlz on June 29, 2011.

I so can feel your pain on this whole situation. I go through the same trial and tribulations with my SIL it’s just forever ongoing. Taking the higher ground as you have up to this point is commendable. I caution that you are probably fighting a never ending battle. Teresa IS jealous of what YOU have with her brother…not what you have or who you are. Seems as if anyone who would have ended up with her BELOVED JOEY would have had to put up with her nonsense so kudos to you for being the better person and pushing forward. Keep an arms length…period! No one needs to be getting mani/pedis together or pretending to be other than what you are. Amicable for the family functions is all you need to be. Personally, I don’t even speak to my SIL at family functions…she doesn’t exit to me, but for reasons that have actually directly been hurtful out of spite and her own jealousy. Don’t do anything you don’t want to do for your family..she’ll fault you regardless ;0) Keep your head up!

Submitted by reys on June 29, 2011.


Submitted by frmtheBX on June 29, 2011.

Okay, Daniellissa. The show aired on Sunday. It is now Wednesday. All the other housewives find a few minutes to write their blogs when they’re travelling. Can you walk and chew gum at the same time? It’s obvious that you read all the other blogs as well as the comments before writing yours. You were absolutely right about one thing. Your husband was beyond happy having his mother there to see your baby girl (who is beautiful, btw) dance. You didn’t give him “pep talk” before seeing HER, now did you? LOL. You can talk a (weak) man out of a relationship with his siblings, but not with his MOTHER. Face it honey, you’re not the only woman in Joey’s life. Are you that insecure? Whataya gonna do next? Turn him against your daughter? He seems to love her very much. Maybe you feel threatened by her too.

Submitted by 4boymom on June 29, 2011.

Melissa, Teresa reminds me of a former friend. She kept going after me. I felt like I was in Jr. High. I dropped her from my close circle and refused to take the bait anymore. It has been five years but we are now cordial and that is all I want. My tip for getting your frustrations out: write everything down on your computer, every emotion that you want.When you start to feel better, hit DELETE. Don’t take her personally. Don’t respond tit-for tat. Of course things change when you get married, it is supposed to. Good luck!

Submitted by KLynn on June 29, 2011.

Nothing more dissappointing then someone who refuses to take responsibilty. Even more than half way through the season, you have yet to take responsibility for ANYTHING. I hope this 15 min of fame has been everything you wanted it to be because, with your poor attitude, and lets be honest, lack of talent, its not going to last long. Good luck in life, Melissa.

Submitted by dmaria on June 29, 2011.

Sorry, I do not believe a word you say!
You used Teresa and Bravo to enhance your own selfish desires. Period!

Submitted by fiery sicilian on June 29, 2011.

Melissa, you are about as fake and disingenuous as a 3 dollar bill. Who are you trying to convince? Certainly not those of us watching you, your sisters or Kathy. Get off your sister in law’s back. “Put your big girl panties on” and learn what it is to be a good daughter in law to your husbands parents. A lot for you to learn about who they are culturally what is and is not acceptable behavior for someone marrying into the family. Shame on your husband for allowing this. You can start by not exposing them and your childish petty behavior on t.v.

Submitted by Shannon A on June 29, 2011.

No hate in this blog has made me so happy!!! Hopefully we have closed the chapter of resentment and anger, and we can get to know you! I’m looking forward to it, Melissa!
Best Wishes to you and yours!

Submitted by rhonyfan on June 29, 2011.

for someone who wants to make nice you sure dont act like it..having kathy and you on the show makes me miss danielle

Submitted by Star343 on June 29, 2011.

Um, no…. You rolled your eyes when she mentioned that her parents are wonderful people. It was as if you were saying “B.S”. Hopefully, your husband will see you for the fraud you are!

Submitted by HWfanCA on June 29, 2011.

You and Joe should make an effort and apologize to Teresa and Joe for joining the show and your part in the feud. All of you are to blame and since she tried, you should also.

Submitted by Maggie’s Mom on June 29, 2011.

Melissa, you need help. You are so possessed by jealousy of Teresa it’s taken over your life. You met – insulted her about money – tried to appear as if you wanted to move on and then trashed Teresa to your sister yet again. How kind it was of you to insult Teresa about money–we’ve all had money problems–just as you will sometime in your life–so to attack her was below despicable. Did you and Joe offer to help Teresa–I’m sure you didn’t. You only used it as ammunition to trash/demean her–shows just what kind a person you are. No one is buying your family unity (which only comes out when you get bad press)–that is the farthest thing from your mind. If you hate her so much, as you obviously do, why are you on the show. Your actions say it all. You are certainly no asset to the show–I actually turn it off when you (or Kathy) come on because I know that they only thing we’ll hear is your “constant complaints and insults” against Teresa. Do us all a favor and leave the show.

Submitted by chellemybelle on June 29, 2011.

So, its clear to me that you read all of the comments and wait until everyone else posts so you can refute what everyone is saying. Try to be a little more authentic. The rolling of the eyes because you are “thinking”?? *sigh* Girl, please. How about acknowledging you and your sister gossiping about Teresa and her mother after your talk? Just keep it real, honey.

Submitted by Candy7 on June 29, 2011.

I though you were suppose to blog about the episode not advertise for yourself…oh, thats why you are on the show…to advertise and bad mouth your sister-in-law since family is so important to you. Viewers could also see you have major issues with your mother-in-law. Here is something to think about…how would you feel if your son got married and your daughter in law bashed your daughter. How would you like that?
Please do us all a favor and not come back.

Submitted by GaawshIcantstandU on June 29, 2011.

I hope you read this… Please stop riding on Teresa’s tails! You are a copycat to the fullest extent! You have no identity and clearly are “new money”!!! You dress your daughter like Teresa’s, you speak about her like she’s the enemy when really you are the enemy to his family. You claim you love him, but are you really doing all that you can?? No you aren’t – you are too busy rollin your eyes and talkin mess about Teresa to remove your big head out of the situation! This isn’t about you! It’s about them! Why are you hatin on Joe having a sister? One thing you are right about… in the end… it’s about family! And Teresa is his sister, so when you are gone, she will still be there! Stop hatin!!!

Submitted by Verde on June 29, 2011.

FINALLY! A blog where you didn’t tear Teresa down. I’m amazed. Guess all the negative comments you’ve been getting are starting to get thru your think skull. Enough! If you seriously want peace, then stop with the eye rolling… BS that its how you think. ROFLMAO at that. Stop the crap talk with your sister and in your personal camera time. Also stop feeding your husband’s insecurities by constantly putting his family down and keeping the ugly hate alive. YOU can put a stop to all the crap that’s going on. YOU have that power. It’s time YOU put on your big girl panties and stop the madness.

Hope you move to LA like rumored and leave RHNJ. You have ruined what used to be my favorite guilty pleasure. You and your sidekick sister and cousin in law Kathy with all your attention seeking have all ruined a fun show. I’d rather watch Danielle and her sick twisted crap than watch you and two-faced Kathy constantly throw digs at Teresa. How petty and jealous can you be? Sad, very sad.

Submitted by lregan on June 29, 2011.

My suggestion to you is run as far away from Teresa as possible before your whole family gets more hurt than they have already been. Teresa needs help that whole family needs help except for your husband who is also a hottie..

Submitted by Ohio on June 29, 2011.

You do realize that you talk in circles my dear and contradict about 85% of what you say, right? All of the tried and true RHWNJ fans can see through your mile long line of BS! You are only where you are right now because of Teresa. Were she not on the show you never would have been considered. I feel very sorry for Joe and Teresa because it’s obvious that you are the one continuing to fuel the flames. Grow-up

Submitted by daveywok on June 29, 2011.

You write as if you’re in the 4th grade.

Submitted by CCollins1122 on June 29, 2011.

If you are so interested in making it work with your sister in law, why do you keep bashing her to YOUR sister. Right after you talked with Teresa you were shown talking to your sister. I wont even go there about your sister. She just needs to go somewhere else… You are really FAKE.

Submitted by christiann52 on June 29, 2011.

Really don’t care about where you went and who you saw but realize this is why you wormed your way onto RHONJ. You roll your eyes when you think? Never heard that one before. Hopefully you will move to LA and off this show. It’s never been about you trying to go forward with Teresa…and you aren’t fooling any of the viewers. Talk is cheap.

Submitted by Viewer176 on June 29, 2011.

your sisters suck, kathy sucks, you suck. you are fake, your blog is fake. your eye rolling is REAL. i hope you don’t come back next year, you’ve ruined the coolness of this show. read the other wives blogs and especially viewer comments.. you have fooled nobody except your husband.. but, oh yeah, he sucks too!


Submitted by Team teresa!!! on June 29, 2011.

I honestly think, you need to start showing who you really are instead of using Teresa to get some TV time. I feel like we don’t know you because all you do is complain about teresa. Stay out of it, let your husband and Teresa work it out and just go with it. Stop making it about YOU, because it’s not!!! Would you ever like some woman to get in between your children????

Submitted by tiff 1564 on June 29, 2011.

i’m really trying to give you a chance here….but each blog totally undoes everything. That is the lamest excuse for eye rolling ive ever heard. also- funny to note that when your talk was brought up with teresa at the camp she was very positive about it and didn’t say anything negative. when you were rehashing it with your sister, it was all negative and nasty. tisk, tisk.

Submitted by tjmaher on June 29, 2011.

THINK with your EYES!!! The best/funniest thing I have ever heard. Where you having ablonde moment?

Submitted by Shamom4 on June 29, 2011.

Why would you be upset about Teresa mentioning your husband’s business deals when you and Kathy (along with your husbands) discuss the Guidice financial situation ALL the time? You have proven to be very hypocritical this season and I was really hoping that wasn’t the case. However, Teresa is everything she claims to be–she tells it like it is! Even your husband said so. You really shouldn’t judge as harshly as you have.

Submitted by Eclectic viewer on June 29, 2011.

What a novel idea. Invite a family member – your mother-in-law – to an event and she comes! Maybe that is all it takes and it’s a shame it wasn’t thought of sooner. Maybe the same would happen if you invited the cousins to be with your daughter!

Submitted by Heather Gonzalez on June 29, 2011.

blah, blah same excuses from you! when one rolls their eyes it is what it is, that is one of the stupidest excuses ever! You say Joe (husband ofcourse) and you have this chemistry well sorry Melissa I just dont see it, everytime he grabs you and grops you (gross, no girl likes that) you ALWAYS are pushing him away although I do agree he needs to approach you differantly. Keep trying you are right family is important. PS Antonia was adorable and you are a great mother.

Submitted by ViewerMBD on June 29, 2011.

You think with your eyes?! So lame…all you do is roll your eyes and then go and bash Teresa with your busy-body sisters. Your are a real phony.

Submitted by receptionist1 on June 29, 2011.

Melissa, I really want to like you and believe what you say, but you are very manipulative and jealous of Teresa and it shows, if you would really want Joe and his family to be together you would stop bad mouthing Teresa and try to get along with her and tell your sisters, Kathy and anyone else who interferes to STOP and deal with it like an adult.

Submitted by 1hotspec on June 29, 2011.

You can’t sing.

Submitted by Charlotte from Ut on June 29, 2011.

Melissa, Nice try in making amends with your husbands family, glad you are trying to explain the rolling eyes because you look like it is you who keeps it going and your sisters making comments egg it on. Do you really see the episodes? Could you see how happy your husband is around his family? Do you see your kids they know how you feel but they want the cousin relashionships to happen. Your daughter is beautiful and yes she has some moves in dancing well have the best of luck in singing.

Submitted by NJNikki on June 29, 2011.


It’s really hard to believe anything you try to say. A re-cap of this episode and your blog from a viewers point… No one thinks with their eyes. Man up to the fact that you were rolling your eyes at Teresa, no one believes you. Face it, you didn’t like what she was saying so you felt the need to let her know from your behavior, we all do it. JUST ADMIT IT. Second I will agree with you that it probably wasn’t best for Teresa to bring up your financial situation when hers is on thin ice. But do you really think that in a conversation attempting to mend problems that it was really necessary for you to point out her financial misfortune once again. And side note to that, yes her mother may be her nanny but is she really at fault for that. She is in financial turmoil and is trying to pull herself out of it and you sit there and judge her for not being able to afford a nanny. That unbelievably disrespectful. You are flat out rude and I can see right through your act with Jacqueline and Caroline. Leave them alone and stop trying to turn them against your sister-in-law. She needs the same support you get from your sisters. I dont know what your constant issue is but maybe you should just keep quiet and lay low for a while instead of continuously stirring up trouble.

Submitted by BG-in-NJ on June 29, 2011.

Yeah, I totally understand….
I’m rolling my eyes right now just thinking about it.
(get a grip, girl)

Submitted by Shendaya123 on June 29, 2011.

I sure hope you two can get along… But the viewer can see that you’re not going to end the fued… Rolling your eyes mean you’re thinking? whoa, that’s the first… You said you’ll try to make amend… but you didn’t… at least Teresa tried… and that’s something coming from her which she tend to get furious and flip tables… But she didn’t…

It seems you both like to compete… and since Teresa has financial problem… You are loving it… correct me if I’m wrong… but you tend to bring up that they can’t afford this and that(babysitter, etc)… it’s shows that all you do is brag about yourself… Yes, we know you’re living a grand lifestyle… but if you keep on making comments like that… HOW IS IT GOING TO WORK? so all the stuff you told your husband is a lie… you’re not trying at all…You make it hard to believe the things you say…

Get over yourself and make peace… I feel bad for your husband not getting along with his sister… (just by watching… Teresa love her lil brother) and for the kids sake… please try… basically, you can end this… but you chose not too… maybe you like the ATTENTION…

Submitted by BG-in-NJ on June 29, 2011.

You should really be very grateful to your sister-in-law Teresa..
considering that your hatred is being used as the vehicle to promote your singing career.

Submitted by BROOKLYNGIRL09 on June 29, 2011.

Love your blog this week. Trying so hard to like you. Hoping you, Teresa and your husband can put this all behind you!!!

Submitted by Ohio Teacher on June 29, 2011.

Nice, Melissa. Starting your plug already for your “sparkling wine”.

Submitted by georgia9382 on June 29, 2011.

Melissa….are you kidding? In your blog you say and I quote, “Hopefully it stops here! I do want to tell everyone that it might seem like I roll my eyes a lot, but that is not because I don’t want to listen to her, it’s because I’m thinking. I think with my eyes,” If you want it to stop, then quit bashing her!!! This “sit down” happened months ago and you have continued to bash Teresa in the press, on twitter and in your blogs. As far as rolling your eyes and thinking…you said it. You are thinking of what you are going to say next instead of listening to her. GET YOUR STORIES STRAIGHT! The viewers are not stupid. We get you!

Submitted by Susanmaria on June 29, 2011.

More than anything, what says that most about you is your spotless home, your beautifully healthy & well dressed children & the fact that you gave your daughter your mother-in-laws first name. As an Italian, this tells me you are an honourable woman. Teresa comes across as an excellent mother to her children as well. Perhaps this is your common ground above all else.

Submitted by Southern Girl on June 29, 2011.

You talked about how Tre doesn’t have money for a nanny. Please remember, she hasn’t always been in a financial bind and I know you know that seeing as though how hard you strived to be exactly like her. Even when she had it she didn’t have a nanny and no other help. So, you have two nanny’s you really aren’t the SUPERWOMAN you seem to think you are. Although, we didn’t hear you call yourself superwoman until after the “Super T” episode! And as far as her mother babysitting, your problem with that would be?? I really wish I could like you but I can’t and I don’t.!! I hope you do not come back for another season!

Submitted by Katrina m Cotto on June 29, 2011.

I am glad you girls had your talk family is family no matter how much you love or hate one another!!! I have been watching Jersey housewives since they first aired!!! Teresa has always been a family person since I first started watching the show she hasnt changed one bit!!! No matter what Melissa and Joe has said about Teresa she has said nothing but nice things about them and about how she just wants her family back and to get along!! Seems like Teresa’s trying to make everything work when she’s the one whose really owed an apology!! Hope everything works out

Submitted by Suzana on June 29, 2011.

Of course you would have preferred your mother in law did not come so that you could have one more story to feed into Joe’s head.

Submitted by me1234 on June 29, 2011.

Glad you had a great time in LA, it is a very happening place, sort of like NY.
So happy to see your husband enjoying the time with his mother, it looked like they both had a great time.
Now on to your talk with Theresa, it is amazing how it bothered you that Theresa brought up your husbands business, yet two weeks ago at the dinner with the accountant you did the same thing. Thank god your husband put a stop to it that night. Also, I do not think you are ready to move on, you are a very confrontational individual, your conversation with your sister proved that. If you really mean what you say your actions would prove it, however, every time you are with your sisters and Kathie all you talk about are the Guidice’s, is there any other story line for you. I have watched RHONJ since season one and I do think that if it continues along the line it is going, this will be my last season. Way tooooo much empasis on being vindictive this season. Hopefully, you will realize your mistakes and own up to your (and your sisters) part in all this.

Submitted by KattyLu on June 29, 2011.

Melissa, rolling your eye is rude. PERIOD! no excuses. Be an adult and grow up. And you wonder why your mother in law and sister in law don’t like talking to you.

Submitted by Lauren Y. on June 29, 2011.

Thank God your hubby has money, because in the looks department – OUCH. That short man can be quite overbearing.

Submitted by Ravens on June 29, 2011.

I read the blogs often but never felt so compelled to actually comment. Melissa, I notice that other than the first week, you always post your blog last. It seems that you need to read the other cast member blogs and then plan how you are going to respond. The spin you put on of your own words and actions is hilarious, for example: eye rolling = thinking with my eyes, give me a break! The viewers are not as stupid as you may believe.

Submitted by Ms.Sanchez on June 29, 2011.

PLEASE! No one is buying you roll your eyes because you think. I am not even sure you think let alone pause to think. If you were so thoughtful before you spoke you would never say the things you say about Joe’s family or Mother. You should be ashamed. At least OWN you bad behavior!

Submitted by Colorado housewife on June 29, 2011.

Submitted by Colorado housewife on June 28, 2011..Melissa, you know how I could tell Teresa really wanted to mend fences with you? Because she sat there and took every piece of crap that came out of your mouth at her with dignity and grace. I’ve seen this woman flip a table and get in someone’s face over less. For her to say she was sorry and to hear you dress her down over her finances (very disgusting from you, by the way) showed she loved her family enough to put it aside. Well, every wolf suffers fleas; you being the flea.

Submitted by Jody Manzoeillo… on June 29, 2011.

All I gotta say is “oh thank you Jesus for having me be on Bravo to launch my career”. You should be ashamed that you needed Bravo to help you and that you could not do it on your own. This “Jesus” saying also is so disrespectful of you. You are mocking my Italian Catholic religion because you do not go to church every Sunday, pray every night, and go to confession on Saturday’s. You are using “Jesus” name to thank him but you do not respect him. Do you even know how he started.

Submitted by NYVIEWERNY on June 29, 2011.

wow…that’s its?

Submitted by bluejay on June 29, 2011.

Aw jesus,
melissa, melissa, melissa…
It’s incredibly difficult to stomach listening to the things that come out of your mouth on a regular basis.
I don’t watch this show because I like you guys or want to be you, look like you, live in your “my little pony castles” ;or aspire to be as removed of intelligent thought as you seem to be. I watch this show because it is scientific proof that neanderthals are alive and well in new jersey and your stupidity literally makes me laugh out loud.
But now your ACTUALLY trying to convince the viewers and yourself that your some kind of rolemodel or that your current “fame” is based on some sort of wonderful gift you have to offer the world?
Please stop trying to take this seriously.
Its ruining the joke
like anyone really wants to follow your links to an interview with ryan seacrest?
By the way, nobody legitimately thinks your a talented singer, your value exists in your ability to make people feel better about themselves for simply not being you.
Your making me miss Danielle
P.S. you don’t need a nanny because you don’t have an actual job that you commute to outside of your house. YOUR JOB IS TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR CHILDREN, SCRUB YOUR MCMANSION, PUT FOOD ON THE TABLE AND RELEASE YOUR HUSBANDS “POISON”
get it? got it? good!

Submitted by Wallie doll on June 29, 2011.


I hope you read this and don’t take it as hate but feedback. Please understand that when you are on tv, you are either liked or not. It’s all about how you portray yourself. You say one thing, do another and then write a completely different thing. You aren’t perfect, no one is! Please stop portraying yourself as perfect w/ a perfect life because it comes off as fake. Teresa is likable because she owns up to her stuff. She let her fans in when she was going threw a financial crisis and it isn’t nice that you bring it up w/ your sisters. Teresa has apologized even though it is obvious that it is incredibly hard for her to do so. She has been the one to start the changes w/ your husband and w/ you. Your kids will grow up and see how you have been acting on tv and if you truly care about them, let things go! Stop dwelling, stop putting thoughts in your husbands head, stop rolling your eyes and just be nice. If Teresa was the one causing the problems like you say don’t you think we would have seen that by now? All we see is you putting your family issues on display for the world to see. At the christening, your husband and your sister were the ones who started the argument. It wasn’t the time or place for Joe to have an outburst and neither was it a place for your sister to get involved. Though you were all on bad terms Teresa still came by to say hi and your family acted quite out of line. So many people dislike you because of this fake image you portray. I’m sure if you were just honest and sweet like you say you are, you would have so many fans. For right now, team Teresa it is for me and any sane person who watches the show.



Submitted by Lauren Y. on June 29, 2011.

You think with your eyes? Really? That’s the answer you would like to stick to? …. that you THINK with your EYES?!?! I mean there is STUPID and then there is you, Melissa.

Submitted by Luciano9 on June 29, 2011.

Melissa, earlier in the season you said keep watching the show and you will get to know the real me. Well, the more I watch, the more I realize what a rude, immature, classless child you really are. As everyone else is posting…please get off the show – you really are embarrasing yourself. Truly. Classless trash is what you are.

Submitted by Texas Gal on June 29, 2011.

You think with your eyes??? That explains a lot. Your poor brain must get a LOT of time off. And why don’t you explain the nasty comments about Theresa and Joe’s financial troubles AFTER you allegedly made up? And I guess your sister was thinking with her eyes during that conversation too. Not to mention you saying that Theresa’s mom is her nanny and then in the very next scene your mother-in-law has YOUR daughter. Get the story straight.
I think you are attention hungry, spoiled, spiteful and just awful to watch.

Submitted by lucy2011 on June 29, 2011.

Melissa, you are a major part of the problem in this situation. I still haven’t seen take an accountability for your actions in the whole mess and it reflects really poorly on you. I also don’t by your comment” I think with my eyes” . Please! You were rolling your eyes at Teresa which was rude. I give her credit for being civil with you because I would not. The scene after your meeting where you were talking to your sister about Teresa’s mother taking care of her kids was a low blow and really none of your business. You brought up her financial problems and continued to bash her. Your not sincere and the viewers can see through you. I hope your husband is watching these episodes and is seeing the real you!!

Submitted by Unica on June 29, 2011.

You roll your eyes because you are rude like that. I dont understand why when you returned from meeting Teresa you were still negative. When your sister and Kathy speak negatively about Teresa stop it and explain we are trying toooo move forward. Thats what real person does. Maybe its you thats jealous.

Submitted by Susan on June 29, 2011.

If you had rolled your eyes at me when I spoke of my mother I can say for sure there would have been a table flipping. Why do we not see you or Joe acknowledging that he called his sister GARBAGE. If someone called me garbage in front of my husband I would fully expect him to take the guy down, brother or no brother.

Oh, and I just love how you guys tried to play off the singing thing as just an accidental moment of singing in the closet. REALLY? And the dinner date with your accountants, no staging there at all.

You come across as shallow, stuck up and very jealous of Teresa.

Submitted by Sue M. on June 29, 2011.

You roll your eyes because you’re thinking / you think with your eyes? I’m sorry, WHATTTT???????????????

Submitted by Alexpuri on June 29, 2011.

You are a joke!

Submitted by Trinityamin on June 29, 2011.

rolling your eyes= thinking?
So, I guess you need to stop thinking , because it’s pretty disrespectful.
If I were your sister-in-law or mother-in-law , you would have learned some lessons a long time ago.

Submitted by Trinityamin on June 29, 2011.

Could you move to Mars, please.
Can’t stand you and your sisters!

Submitted by Berkshire on June 29, 2011.

“it’s because I’m thinking. I think with my eyes, I always have, so I just wanted to clear that up.”

Now that explains a lot!!!!

Submitted by KarinaC on June 29, 2011.

I have to correct you! It’s : ” i hope you have a GIORNATA MAGNIFICA!”.
From a True Italian

Submitted by LaineyLainey on June 29, 2011.

You think with your eyes??? No, you don’t. Just stop rolling your eyes, you’re a grown-up now. It’s a bad habit, that’s all. You can break it if you try. It behooves you to at least try instead of making up a weird nonsensical excuse like “I think with my eyes.” Just own it, try to fix it, and move on.

Submitted by soultonic on June 29, 2011.

You’re going around in circles because you want to, period!
You’re fake and manipulative and destructive and eventually you’re gonna take a fall for it.
The only reason you’re where you’re at right now is because your husband’s got the big pants for you, but eventually he won’t, so get some character, try some integrity, truth is always an option and become a woman instead of a Jersey Shore one dimensional stereotype.
Good luck, you’re going to need it.

Submitted by HWViewer123 on June 29, 2011.

Melissa it seems you have finally toned down your victim attitude and everything is teresa’s fault. I hope this is because you REALIZE that two make it and break it, and not just because you see that people don’t like you

Submitted by concerned parent on June 29, 2011.

Melissa – If both yourself and Teresa continue to talk and try to work together, your family will benefit. Please do not fall into the tit-for-tat mode where a person expects the other to make on concession in response to a concession given. Scoreboards are counter productive. I know your husband and family will be proud of your effort.

Submitted by A Viewer on June 29, 2011.

You think with your eyes??? Hmmm, well I think I know what your eyes were thinking……..Teresa is full of BS, Teresa is full of BS. BTW, your sister Lyssa thinks alot with eyes too…….I can’t believe you said that!!

Submitted by CET on June 29, 2011.

Self promotion. THAT is what your time on the show is about (& probably Kathy’s as well now that she is discussing opening a restraunt)… it is not about family at all. Your blog this week really seems to clear that up (just in case the totally fake and staged looking introduction to your singing on the show didn’t make that clear enough). LA what? I had NO IDEA why you would be in LA or what you were even talking about until I clicked on all of your external links. Believe it, or not… not all of us are following your singing career and I’m sure I’m not the only reader who didn’t know what the heck you were even talking about. Please stop trashing your husband’s family and show us something POSITIVE about yourself (& I don’t mean your singing – I mean something positive about your character). It also wouldn’t hurt to remember that the only reason you are on the show in the first place (& now have all of the opportunities that you have for self promotion) is because of Teresa. The way I see it, you are forever in her debt. You should be thanking her, not trashing her and her family every single week (on the show, in your interviews for the show, in the media…).

Submitted by Melanie_ann99 on June 29, 2011.

You have to think with your eyes because you don’t have a brain in your head – do you hear yourself? You say you don’t like Teresa talking about her brother’s business deals and that she is trying to expose him, but you have absolutely no problem talking about Teresa’s financial troubles every time you can. If you and Joey are so well off and you are all about family, why don’t you step in and help out your family instead of talking about them? And really… you had to trash Teresa for not having a nanny? Do you frown on women raising their own children?


Submitted by Viewer3563 on June 29, 2011.

Why does it take you the longest to post? I feel like you wait until everyone else has posted their blog and then you come in last to clean up whatever else was said. I don’t have a good feeling that you will honor your words to make it right though.

I do hope it gets resolved. Accept people for who they are … you are asking them to do the same to you so you have to reciprocate.

Submitted by ASIANwAHINE on June 29, 2011.

Finally you blog is not about making jabs or accusations. This is the Melissa that people will like.

Submitted by 72887 on June 29, 2011.

You think with your eyes? Come on. There are things I like about you but then you ruin it by acting like a brat. Cut the bs and just act nice to Teresa when you are around her. Life is not fair, honey. And you will never have your way 100% of the time. Play nice and everything will be fine.. Unless you LIKE creating drama and being the center of attention… then by all means keep doing what you’ve been doing.

Submitted by JayMohrmakestheshow on June 29, 2011.

It is sad that you think you are a good mother. You are not a good role model wwith all of the lying and your sister should be ashamed of herself. How does your own mother get out of bed in the morning after seeing how she raised her girls to be so petty and coniving. I stopped watching NY Housewives over Jill and Luann and might have to stop NJ b/c of you, your sister and Kathy.

Submitted by soraiadizin on June 29, 2011.

More than 230 comments on NJ Housewifes facebook, all of the 230 comments HATE YOU! Please, LEAVE THE SHOW!

WE REALLY DON’T LIKE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11

Submitted by rh_fan86 on June 29, 2011.

please leave this show. I cant take you or kathy anymore

Submitted by Specialladyt on June 29, 2011.

You are so full of crap! You intentionally wait to post your blog every week so you can read Teresa’s blog and manipulate once again!

Another reason why you don’t post for several days after is that all of your hate mail disappears when you post your 4-5 day late blog!

Submitted by Viewer in Bethesda on June 29, 2011.

Rolling your eyes means you are thinking, really? The viewing audience isn’t that dumb. You didn’t really seem all that excited when you talked to your sisters afterward- your blog never seems to match what actually happens, as usual. Feuds on the housewives is nothing new, but it’s really sad when family is involved. It’s really uncomfortable watching you and Teresa. It’s clear that one of you seems sincere and the other one rolls their eyes and seems bored by the whole issue. I just can’t watch this drama unfold because it’s between family- it’s too painful to watch. I hope for your children’s sake you can swallow your pride and really learn to tolerate each other. I hope you can have a “come to Jesus moment” that petty stuff is just that, petty. At the end of the day, your family is who really has your back.

Submitted by denverCOViewer2 on June 29, 2011.

It worries me for you to say that you want to make things work with you and Teresa however, when you talk to your sisters, you allow your sister to continue to talk smack about Teresa and Joe’s family…if you say family is so important and you want peace, then you need to put you sister in her place and kindly say to her that you are trying to make things work and put an end to the drama. Your actions by not sticking up for joe’s family only shows that you thrive on drama and you are inconsistent in you actions and your words!!!

Submitted by Georgiapeaches on June 29, 2011.

It’s all about Melissa, Melissa, Melissa, when Teresa is around Melissa can’t be seen or heard. Melissa you desire too much attentions and you are very inmature. Your family is notm golden no more so than Joeys family. yet Joey is the one that never seem to amaze me by allowing you to bash his family-you have even talked about his mother and for your sister to join in just show you all are trying to use BRAVO to gain fame for your entire family. By the way have you all found a new home? I see you all will be leaving the mansion in 2012. You are good at deceiving peoples. Shame on you, hubby and miserable looking Kathy!

Submitted by denverCOViewer2 on June 29, 2011.

It worries me for you to say that you want to make things work with you and Teresa however, when you talk to your sisters, you allow your sister to continue to talk smack about Teresa and Joe’s family…if you say family is so important and you want peace, then you need to put you sister in her place and kindly say to her that you are trying to make things work and put an end to the drama. Your actions by not sticking up for joe’s family only shows that you thrive on drama and you are inconsistent in you actions and your words!!!

Submitted by JC10 on June 29, 2011.

It aggravated you how she was trying to “expose” Joey??? Well can you just imagine how AGGRAVATED Teresa was when in the first 30 seconds of episode 1 you “exposed” her, her husband, her kids and her parents!! Those poor little Guidice girls will soon be adults, and they will see all of this one day, and they will see the real Thea Melissa!!! You should be ashamed of yourself!!!

Submitted by Meliss AA on June 29, 2011.

PRAISE Jesus and then shut your mouth about your family!!! trash talking is stupid you act like a child….AMEN

Submitted by Alicia Padilla on June 29, 2011.

Yes that nothing to do with conversation at all, but either did Kathy and I don’t you should have brought up at all. I don’t know the whole story cause I am just viewer, but to me Teresa was trying fix fights between her family not extended family. When the time is right hopefully Kathy and Teresa can fix there problems..

Submitted by soraiadizin on June 29, 2011.

Why don’t you comment about your talk with your sister where she was rolling her eyes . Was she thinking too?

Submitted by samanthagurles on June 29, 2011.

Why don’t you move to LA?
It would be so nice not to see you on the show anymore!

Submitted by telesia on June 29, 2011.

Melissa…Glad you had a great time in our City.. Regarding the rolling of your eyes, its funny you ONLY roll them when your talking to Theresa. Maybe no other conversation is worth thinking about.
I agree with you with one thing you said….FAMILY
FAMILY and MEMORIES are FOREVER….but remember WEALTH and FAME are or can be TEMPORARY! Which are you willing to work harder for?

Submitted by joegaggini on June 29, 2011.

We don’t like you. There is something about you that is so Fake.

Submitted by telesia on June 29, 2011.

Melissa…Glad you had a great time in our City.. Regarding the rolling of your eyes, its funny you ONLY roll them when your talking to Theresa. Maybe no other conversation is worth thinking about.
I agree with you with one thing you said….FAMILY
FAMILY and MEMORIES are FOREVER….but remember WEALTH and FAME are or can be TEMPORARY! Which are you willing to work harder for?

Submitted by nygirl1186 on June 29, 2011.

hmmm looks like somebody is finally feeling the burn? Talk about backing down and writing a fluff blog this week……. GET OFF THE SHOW!

Submitted by paulinacorjwlw on June 29, 2011.

You roll your eyes, because you are thinking?
OMG, what a lame excuse.
I am done w you.

Submitted by Meliss AA on June 29, 2011.


Do you not watch and listen to yourself when you are talking about Teresa?? You constantly bring up her financial situation and she meantions a plumber and you get upset???? Really?? YOU ARE NOT HELPING YOUR SITUATION!! you come off as mean and and selfish.

The nanny comment really?? what is wrong with a grandmother watching her grandchildren??? and rolling your eyes when someone is trying to have a conversation with you is RUDE and IMMATURE…your actions speaker louder then your words.

Submitted by Ricksgrl on June 29, 2011.


Submitted by housewife/mother on June 29, 2011.

It is obvious you have gotten a lot of back lash this season. But have you and Joe taken a step back and looked at your role in everything? How many times can Teresa apologize? You and your husband have never apologized to her. It takes two to have issues with competition and you and Joe are guilty also. How dare you bad mouth your mother in law on television! You and Joe are both the youngest in your families and used to getting your own ways and having all the attention on you. It is sickening! You have an excuse for everything! (I wasn’t rolling my eyes, I think with my eyes) Try thinking with your brain next time. You talk about competition with Teresa, then why on earth did you do this show? Think about it, Teresa is successful and a reality TV celebrity and baby Melissa wanted that also! Tell your eyes to tell your brain to stop being hypocritical. You are transparent!

Submitted by demitrischwartz on June 29, 2011.

You are the new Danielle, but even worse than her, because you are extremely manipulative. thank you Jesus, you are not my sister-in-law!

Submitted by Lisa on June 29, 2011.

Ok and when you was bad mouthing her to your sister????? Listen we watch the show DO YOU???? You and Kathy show your true colors and nothing you write on your blog can hide that! NOW we are all ROLLING our eyes at you!!!! You have NO CLASS!!!!!

Submitted by Susie Q. on June 29, 2011.

You roll your eyes when u think – LOL!!!! You even lie in your blog!!!! Classic!!!

Submitted by anacarolinamoura on June 29, 2011.

Bravo interviewed you every year and every year Bravo rejected you. Bravo just brought you this season to fight w Teresa and you agree.
What a disgusting woman , you are.

Submitted by lree44 on June 29, 2011.

melissa, don’t you think it’s very unfair that teresas’ friends are telling her to put her big girl panties on and make peace and then you’re at home listening to the venom comming from your sister . she acts like she puts negative thoughts in your head just so you’ll keep hating on joes’ family.if you really want peace you have to tell her to stop with the negativity.she seems to want you to just be close with your own family and screw joes, not fair at all.

Submitted by carolinaesposito on June 29, 2011.

I had given you a chance at the beginning. Now, I became Team Teresa. you and your sisters are troublemakers and jealous of her.

Submitted by Olaparis on June 29, 2011.

95% of people want you and Kathy out of the show. Get a clue and LEAVE!

Submitted by patriciaperez on June 29, 2011.

Go take care of your children and husband and leave the TV show.

Submitted by KarlaViola on June 29, 2011.

There is nothing at this point that will make me believe in you.

Submitted by Teamteresa on June 29, 2011.

Team Teresa,
You can’t sing, you can’t convince anyone that you want the family to be together.
Nobody is buying your crap.
We love Teresa!

Submitted by Giulianasouza on June 29, 2011.


Please, leave the show! We can’t take it anymore!

Submitted by sarz on June 29, 2011.

Please….Just go away!!!! There is nothing geniune about you

Submitted by Susie Q. on June 29, 2011.

Glad u love LA so much – maybe u should move there and join RHWBH – lol! They would eat u and Joe alive!!! They way u badmouthed Teresa to ur sister – right after ur talk – now that was trash!!! As ur husband would say!!!!

Submitted by Count me Out on June 29, 2011.

You think with your eyes? Really? That is just the saddest thing I have heard. You THINK with your eyes?

Submitted by Xoxo11 on June 29, 2011.

Honestly, Melissa… you are a hypocrite. How dare you even get angry at Teresa for bringing up her brother’s business deals when ALL season you say things about her personal life that has NOTHING to do with YOU? First, in your interviews, you talk about her money issues… saying how you “pay your bills.” I’m not justifying Teresa talking about your husband’s business deals, but don’t act like you don’t do the same thing. Dish it and take it. Then there’s that scene when you’re getting ready with your sister in the bathroom and you trash talk Teresa about how her mother takes care of her kids because “it wouldn’t be smart to get a nanny with their financial situation.” And then, your sister roles her eyes at that! You people are crazy. Since when is it wrong or even uncommon for grandmothers to watch their grand kids? You say you want things to get better but it just seems like you enjoy this feud because it gives you more reason to be on this show.

Submitted by visitor1023 on June 29, 2011.

All about the press.

Submitted by karentc on June 29, 2011.

That was very big of you to meet with Teresa. But keep your guard up. She is going through a lot and can flip like a pancake!

Submitted by Summersea on June 29, 2011.

Melissa I think you like LA because in California people are nice to your face but behind your back another story. This is the place were Heidi &Spencer got famous!! NY &NJ keep it real and see through people. I’ve never heard anyone think with there eyes. You are never at fault but Teresa is always. I miss Dina who is beautiful and real!

Submitted by Blessedgal on June 29, 2011.

I know that this will not be posted but anyhoo, blog after blog you bash Teresa and then try to promote everything you are doing. If it were not for Teresa you would not be here. Hopefully her brother will see the real you and how you keep trying to split the family apart by being manipulitive. Your true colors have shown that you are not about family but only about yourself. Please get off the show, we viewers have had enough.

Submitted by Mona V on June 29, 2011.

Love this post, you’re being very positive about your family situation. Good for you!

Submitted by Judith Cauldwell on June 29, 2011.

I don’t think that you will ever get anything resolved with Teresea. She is in denial about her husband, her finances and her family. When Joe said she is fake, he hit the nail on the head. I thought she had no family other than Jacquiline, Dana and Caroline. You and your beautiful kids and her brother were never mentioned. Just, please don’t ever start playing to the camera’s, that is what she does…It’s sickening. I used to watch the NJ real housewives but that voice of her’s and all the showing off, I have to change the channel or fast forward it till her face goes off. I wish you and your family, your cousin and her family only the best. Good Luck and GOD BLESS!!

Submitted by Pamela Myers on June 29, 2011.

Melissa stop it with Terese already. No matter what, @ the end of the day that is still your husbands blood. So don’t learn the hard way and cut the drama.

Submitted by dbldare on June 29, 2011.

Of course this comment probably won’t be posted……But here goes:
interesting how you did not address your trash talking with your lovely sister AFTER the clearing the air/starting fresh talk.

It’s quite obvious now why you and Kathy signed on, She has a business she wants PR for and you want to be Brittany Spears. Ew…….

So what does your husband say when he watches how you try to pull strings?

Submitted by teamteresa on June 29, 2011.

Are you freaking kidding me??? The “ring thing” at the Catskills was too much for you and not your style?? Your husband chasing you around the room, grabbing at your bottom and doing his best to get with you for the whole world to see is not too much for you?? He is absolutely emabarrassing with his behavior. Clean up at your own home before you start judging others.

Submitted by Melsa on June 29, 2011.

I guess your PR people gave you the memo that bashing Teresa on your entire blog every single week is making you look petty and nasty. I think you and Kathy are super transparent and the viewers are not falling for your pathetic attempts to remain relevant on the show by fighting with T. I think you and sisters told Danielle to bring up your son’s birth on the reunion as another avenue to get on the show. I think it is disgusting that you are dragging this family through the mud to get your career started. If it was not for Teresa no one would even know who you are and bravo would not have even brought you on the series. T even dedicated her book to her brother and showed pics of them growing up. The ONLY reason you are on is because of your suppose feud with T. As shown on a prior show, Teresa made no attempts to hide you; she actually introduced Joey in front of everyone including the cameras. Guess what, Bravo chose not to add it in the final show. T invited you to every party she had on the show, T does not control the editing!!! Caroline has 10 brothers and sisters, yet I don’t see them on the show all the time. In order for you to get your singing career moving and all of your other money making ventures you NEED fans to support it. Guess what, you have NO fans. Your sad attempts to bring Teresa down are not working.

You roll your eyes when your thinking…..ummm yeah sure you do.


Submitted by Cynthia928 on June 29, 2011.

There is not such thing as rolling your eyes while you think unless you are a bratty teen who does not like what their parents have to say to them…grow up!! Your sisters and Kathy might eat up your nonsense but the audience doesn’t.

Submitted by jocabanna on June 29, 2011.

I am already sooo over you….. moving on. Never thought I’d say this, but I’d rather watch Housewives of Atlanta than watch you.

Submitted by ViewerCarole on June 29, 2011.

I agree the sex toys? were creepy. I loved watching your daughter, you have a right to be proud she’s beautiful and did an amazing job. I’m looking forward to hearing your song

Submitted by Gail in SD on June 29, 2011.

Both her grandmothers? Who knew you had a mom. Isn’t that what you complained about Teresa, not acknowledging you on the first two seasons? Now 7 shows in and you mention your mom for the first time. You are a hyporcite.

Submitted by LV Viewer on June 29, 2011.

You’re getting better, but you are still not getting it. Teresa’s presence isn’t preventing your husband from having a good relationship with his mother. It’s obvious that he needs his mommy, but it’s his responsibility to foster that relationship. You are young but not so young that you shouldn’t understand that people & circumstances change only when we start looking at them & it differently. Melissa, start by taking off your designer shades and taking a good look in the mirror…. a change in your attitude will do wonders for you and everyone else!

Submitted by Beth Chicago on June 29, 2011.

Give me a break about your excuse for rolling your eyes. Bad answer! And how about all the trash talking about Teresa AFTER you talked with her. Sounds like you are not all about family. I think you feel you are above Teresa due to her financial position and I think that is wrong. You hit her hard when she was down. Why does Teresa have to apologize to you? YOU never recipricated the apology. From my guess, I bet the two of you were equally wrong. So stop acting…and I mean ‘acting’….like you are above her.
I am not a fan of you or Kathy….or your husband Joe. All 3 of you should be apologizing to Teresa and Joe for how you are trash talking them. Shame on you.

Submitted by Suzeqnj on June 29, 2011.

Melissa I am sorry but you need to quit bad mouthing Teresa. Even the littlest thing like the ring you will put her down for!! you want to get along but the same time there is always a jab at her after each positive comment. Funny part is you contradict yourself all the time. I think you need to watch these episodes and listen to yourself! I am not trying to be ugly but it is actually quite annoying to watch you. Do you not see that you and Kathy both since episode 1 came out guns blazing on Teresa? Everyone read into it! You all tried to make her the bad one which back fired because it all made you look petty and jealous of Teresa! I am Italian and my sister is exactly like you and the funny part she is not liked by many for bad mouthing her sister in public. That’s exactly what you do and it is backfiring on you. I think you need to start being nice!

Submitted by Paulah on June 29, 2011.

You think with your eyes, really? Omg, that is the biggest crock of bs i have ever heard! Own it chick, you went back on everything you have been saying all season! You have said that if she came to u wanting to apologize that you would welcome her with open arms and you would move forward and forget anything that has happened in the past! You lied! You were only saying that to fool your husband and everyone around you! You can’t play us, you want Teresa out of the picture so you can have Joe and his mother all to yourself! Your really a scary person! Grow up girl! Get your own life and stay out of Teresas!

Submitted by BG-in-NJ on June 29, 2011.

Congratulations on your budding LA singing career, and also congratulations to cousin Kathy’s budding restaurant endeavors.
Too bad you both had to hack your family to pieces to achieve your goals, via Bravo.

Submitted by JWill on June 29, 2011.

I just don’t know if I believe you about the family part…or the stuff about eye rolling. Theresa just comes off as more genuine. sorry to break it to ya.

Submitted by Emma rose skinner on June 29, 2011.

Serously, make up your all
family! And Teresa should make up with Kathy
there cusins! A family should never
end like this! But I get were ur comming
from forget the past start over!

Submitted by Lisa Mary on June 29, 2011.

Funny how you bashed Theresa to Lysa after the sitdown. You’ll never really give her a chance, because you really don’t like her. Just admit it and move on because deep down you can’t stand the family. The only family that is important to you is your side and you keep Kathy as a friend because she doesn’t get along with Theresa. It is clear as a bell and everyone can see it.

Submitted by Jaclynn Anne on June 29, 2011.

You roll your eyes bc your thinking? LoL Come on. You roll your eyes cuz your jealous that you will never be half the woman Teresa is. Your husband shouldn’t drink if he can’t handle his alcohol. And that dance reception? was that a joke? why was your daughter dancing with a grown man? borderline inappropriate.

Submitted by Viewer731 on June 29, 2011.

You are doing everything you accused Teresa of in terms of seeking fame and popularity. Don’t you think that’s a bit hypocritical?

Submitted by 2lou on June 29, 2011.

“You think with your eyes?” You Must.. because your darn sure don’t use your brain. You must think we the viewers think w/ something less then our brains too to buy this crap. We “see” your actions and we “think” with our brain that you are full of BS. Try usin your brain to do your thinking for you..Just saying..

Submitted by MNLOON on June 29, 2011.

Melissa, after watching your meeting with Teresa, you are the problem in this families turmoil. You bait your husband against his family and sister. Every episode you have bashed Teresa and bring up her money problems. When Teresa brought up your families money issues, you wanted it stopped. Should you not show the same respect. Also, why do you have a nanny, when you are a stay at home mother? Bashing your sister-in-law because her mother is helping out with the children is wrong, wrong, wrong! Are you JEALOUS!!!! You seem to have only one goal in life, an that is to be a singer and are using
this show and Bravo to achieve this goal. But, first you need singing lessons and learn the words to songs are singing. One day your husband will be watching the show, and it will sink in that you are creati ng the unhealthy relationship between Joe , you and his family. Please stop with the eye rolling, negative comments and that little person on your shoulder offering bad advise.

Submitted by AmberLavender on June 29, 2011.

Mellisa, Im glad you and Teresa are trying to work things out! Me and my husbands family didnt speak for a long time and then in 2010 my 4 yr odl daughter was diagnosed with Leukemia. Its sad that it took something like that to bring us back together! Good luck and best wishes!! – Amber

Submitted by seanavery16 on June 29, 2011.

um…you are not a nice person. It galls me that you throw around the word fake when you are the epitome of that word. And your sisters? Ugh. I now dvr RHONJ. When you, your sisters or Kathy come on the screen, i fast forward. Useless, all of you. Theresa never brought up family drama on the show. You show up and all of your dirty laundry is aired for the world. Shameful! If its all about family, you wouldve kept that to yourselves. I feel like you told bravo you could cause the drama and thats why you are there. Once the drama is settled, you have no storyline. Also, the comment “we pay for our things” made me laugh as a quick google search revealed a TON of liens against you guys for NON-PAYMENT. “Plumbers unhappy is common”. What planet do you live on?

Submitted by seanavery16 on June 29, 2011.

um…you are not a nice person. It galls me that you throw around the word fake when you are the epitome of that word. And your sisters? Ugh. I now dvr RHONJ. When you, your sisters or Kathy come on the screen, i fast forward. Useless, all of you. Theresa never brought up family drama on the show. You show up and all of your dirty laundry is aired for the world. Shameful! If its all about family, you wouldve kept that to yourselves. I feel like you told bravo you could cause the drama and thats why you are there. Once the drama is settled, you have no storyline. Also, the comment “we pay for our things” made me laugh as a quick google search revealed a TON of liens against you guys for NON-PAYMENT. “Plumbers unhappy is common”. What planet do you live on?

Submitted by Kay White on June 29, 2011.

You had 4 days and this is all that you can come up with!!!! You keep saying “we” need to fix things and YOU are the only one that’s NOT trying. We all see right through your lies and manipulation. Save that manipulation for your husbancd – he’s the only one that believes you. After your meeting with Theresa, you continued to bad-talk her to your sisters, you continued to take jabs about her financial situation and you continued to dangle her brother like a dog bone: saying that Theresa better act right or she’s not gonna have her brother. YOU ARE SO UGLY!!!!! YOU ARE DANGEROUS!!!! AND YOU ARE SO JEALOUS of Theresa. Oh, and I have news for you honey… You are NO Beyonce!!! You have to be liked in order to have a successful music career. Antoher thing, I am sooooo glad that this show is already filmed so you could not go back and try to change your NASTY ways after you saw yourself. BITCH!

Submitted by AmberLavender on June 29, 2011.

Melissa, Im so glad you and Teresa are trying to work things out. Me and my husbands family didnt get along until my 4 yr old was diagnosed with Leukemia in 2010. Sad it took that to get us back together. – Amber

Submitted by Nikky on June 29, 2011.

booooooooring. you never post your blogs on time and then when you do, you beat around the bush and talk about your publicity tour. i’d much rather read about how you truly feel, which is what i thought blogs were for. none the less, i hope by watching yourself on television, you see how ridiculous this whole feud is. like you say, “family is everything.” what i say is, a little less talk and a lot more action. suck it up for the sake of your family and if that means biting your tongue, so be it. i think teresa has apologized too many times and you have responded by “thinking with your eyes” too many times. just knock it off and act like adults!

Submitted by James Meade on June 29, 2011.

I think its pathetic that you use Teresa as a connection to get on the show. You are so fake & you just want fame & attention. You’re just another Danielle Staub!

Submitted by ViewerinNewOrleans on June 29, 2011.

Love you Melissa! I hope you’re prepared for the nasty comments but don’t let them get to you. It should make you feel very good that the people who claim to hate you were waiting for your blog with baited breath. They watch the show every week and they will click all three of those links to see your interviews. LOL!!! They know they love you. The media loves you, Kathy loves you, Caroline loves you, Jacqueline loves you, and you’ll win the fans over too! Congrats on all your success.


Submitted by ADIAHA ASHBY on June 29, 2011.


Submitted by Wow Wow Wow on June 29, 2011.

MELISSA STOP BLOGGING LAST EVERY WEEK, WE ALL HAVE NOTICED IT. Melissa no one is buying your eye rolling story. You are rude and a fame whore. Take a few singing lessons, you are an average singer based on your closet debut. I am not hating on you, just being real.
Also, tired of seeing Lysa every week; Is she auditioning for next season. “Bravo”, Please bring back the lovely Dina and get rid of Messy Melissa her silly sisters and scary Kathy.

Submitted by rebeca on June 29, 2011.

Melissa, you dont think with your eyes…you have a different set of EYES for Teresa and her husband and another set for your husband. Replay dear! Replay! Dinner w/the Hiza’s ..Gia’s meet…explaining to your husband how you feel….talking to Teresa….PA”LEEZ!!! I don not believe it is Teresa controlling the family..HER family. It is you with your insecurities and competitive wanna be attitude. Listen to yourself. Try to look within your body language, your tone, and UUUURGH! the words you use! lets have some class? manners? i am sincerely turned off by this entire battle and listening to your VOICE on this show. You have a nice SINGING voice. But how you behave and what you say and how you sound :UGLY” – getting bored with seeing you.

Submitted by Rachelle in Columbus on June 29, 2011.

OMG, is that it? You are running….running….from the issues. I cannot wait until the reunion show. You have some questions to answer. Why do you never take responsibility for your wrong in this family drama? I cannot stand you and hope you will not be back year. As all of the fans have stated you were jealous of Theresa’s fame with the show and you wanted a part of that fame. It is so very clear to all of us….wow…I feel so sorry for Theresa.

Submitted by DELIA from MN on June 29, 2011.

Hi Melissa , when you show doubt and talk negatively with your sisters it makes you look bad. Just be a good person and expect the best … if you don’t get it then whatever, don’t take it so hard because that will make it a struggle. You add to the struggle. Be positive and be kind whether in front of Teresa or behind her back. Then you can feel good knowing you haven’t done anything wrong and you have no regrets that way. That is how you be the bigger person. Teresa has her own issues as much as I do love her there’s a lot to learn here overall, but that is usually the case when there is tension – both sides have learning and growing and the sooner someone figures that out the better. Move on, enjoy life – without judgement and without assumptions. Ignore the digs – and do it with a smile.

Submitted by cindymindy on June 29, 2011.

I don’t know why I am bothering to write this because not one of my comments about Melissa have ever been posted, but here we go one more time…..
Melissa the only thing that your annoying eye rolling proved was that you were thinking you really did not want to be there talking with Teresa. The viewers are not stupid and we could tell you had a bad attitude right from the start the second you walked in. Also the way you talked about the situation with one of your mean sisters after the meeting with Teresa just proved that you are full of it! You do not want peace in the family, you love the attention you get for stirring the pot. Grow up already and quit whining about how bad you think your husbands family treats you!

Submitted by ADIAHA ASHBY on June 29, 2011.


Submitted by kay24 on June 29, 2011.

okay melissa, it was really nice watching your husband with his mother and your daughter’s dance show was really nice. i liked that you and theresa talked but i felt that you were soo not into that conversation. yeah you say you think with your eyes, but come on! seriously! i really like you, i do, but then on your interviews, you were bad mouthing the whole situation. it seems that you do that alot with your situation with Theresa and there was no reason why you had to bring up Kathy into that conversation. That’s a whole different topic, focus on the relationship with your family and Theresa’s. And don’t you think that your sister might be a little hater too. I’m just saying.

Submitted by djw on June 29, 2011.

You think with your eyes and that explains why you roll them? HAHA…still rude.
You seem to have an answer for everything!

Submitted by holy cannoli on June 29, 2011.

What about your comments in your talking head, after the sit down..What about your ,and your sisters comments at your home?? Sorry, Teresa has been saying all along about ending this and moving on and wanting to be family again…You have said something like that, but then contradict your self with words or actions..
Sorry I have no respect for you, your huband or Kathy for doing this show with all this family drama, to hurt and disrespect Teresa and her parents..

Submitted by Viewer1976 on June 29, 2011.

Thinking with your eyes? Yes, that’s what the eye roll means, it means you could care less. If that truly was not your intention then you might want to learn a little bit about body language so you can try to fake more people out with your real feelings. Right now you just appear to be a walking contradiction.

Submitted by JessiF on June 29, 2011.

you make me sick cause your so fake! you have your husband wraped around your fingure and he cant see the truth. The only time you’re rolling your eyes is when you talk about Teresa and her family…is that the only time you think? Even after your talk, you were talking crap about her w your sister! Talking about her money issues is rude! Guess that goes back to how you were raised!

Submitted by Bossman on June 29, 2011.

Doesn’t matter what you say, your a no talent loser!!!

Submitted by doctorgirl on June 29, 2011.

Melissa, I find it interesting that you had something positive to say about everyone on the Catskills trip except Teresa. It’s clear you do not want to make peace with her. You and your husband accused her of ignoring you, but then you go and admit that you “ran” away. Which is it??????? You completely contradict yourself. And it’s creepy because it’s clear both you and Kathy clearly came on the show to hijack teresa’s life. How sad.

Submitted by mollys on June 29, 2011.

Oh Melissa,

You are fake, fake, fake! Crazy, manipulative, and sooooo unkind. You really should be ashamed of your behavior in this episode. I’d hope for you to change, but you are a big girl and you should already know better by now… so maybe its too late for you. Its obviously too late for your sisters!

Submitted by nvjack on June 29, 2011.

You think with your eyes. That has to be the most ridiculous excuse ever used on Housewives. A real first.So how’s the “Teresa bashing” going for you and Kathy? You don’t sing well ,you are the “oddity” of the moment. Have you met Danielle and Camille you have a common bond, reality escapes you.

Submitted by stephanie martin on June 29, 2011.

Does your sister roll her eyes when she is thinking and talking also?????????

Submitted by Nate D. Grate on June 29, 2011.

Why do you and your sisters hate Teresa? She is trying very hard and meeting you way more than half way. Also why the digs at Teresa’s parents?

Submitted by Caroline235 on June 29, 2011.

ohh yeahh.. and I think with my middle finger. not buying it!

Submitted by minnesota rhw on June 29, 2011.

I think Teresa met you more than half way, what happened at the christening was precipitated by you and your husband. Teresa offered an opportunity to start fresh and you were resistant in the meeting and the later conversation with your sister disappointing. The most puzzling thing was you being upset that Teresa expressed your sentiments. For most people that would be a win, everyone is in agreement, but somehow that was offensive to you? weird.

Submitted by JoanneNJ on June 29, 2011.

Melissa – it doesnt seem like you roll your eyes. you do roll your eyes when talking to Teresa…If you do something own it. You say one thing on your blogs, but your actions and interviews on the show are completely opposite. You come across very caddy and envious of Teresa with no compassion for her situation that going on at the time.

Submitted by Texasangel1977 on June 29, 2011.

You think with your eyes?!? Really? No wonder you and Teresa haven’t gotten along, she thinks you are being a smartass rolling your eyes at her all the time, and you were really just thinking!!! Wow! And if I were you I wouldn’t mention the trashy behavior of you and your sister running Teresa in the dirt when you just got back from a meeting and agreed to make things positive and show love, I that’s how you show love, talking crap behind Teresa’s back!!

Submitted by libbiec on June 29, 2011.

Sorry babe! don’t believe you with that thing about you “thinking with [your] eyes” bit. The rolling is just indicative of not listening–period. Your negative body language was speaking louder in that episode than you realize. Get real. You are not innocent.

Do yourself and your husband’s family a favor and go get some professional help as to why you subconsciously want the discord. Maybe then you grow up, take responsibility for your share of the discord and your share of fence mending. You should be thankful you are not caught up in this economic downturn like others are. Stop with the bad mouthing about your sister-in-law and her huband’s financial problems. What goes around comes around.

Submitted by Audrianna L. on June 29, 2011.

It’s clear that you are trying to save face after all that has been written about you after the episode. You think with your eyes??!!! Ooookkkk. And there you go twisting things again. As a viewer, I thought Teresa was bringing up the plumber to show that Joe Guidice doesn’t discuss with outsiders things about your husband. If he hated him so much, he would have had his name all over the place. That’s what she was trying to say. And you said in your interview that he could have paid the bills for him because you all are family and Teresa’s shoes are more expensive than the plumber bill. Really??? Then hey family, why don’t you pay some of their bills then. After all you’re family. I really hope you open your eyes and see the destruction you are causing. Not saying Teresa is innocent in any of this, but at least she admitted it. You have yet to admit to anything. And dogging your mother-in-law with Kathy? so not nice. Take a long hard look at yourself before you keep casting stones.

Submitted by kathy curran on June 29, 2011.

You can’t be serious here – you roll your eyes when you’re thinking? OMG this is the lamest excuse I have EVER heard!! You know you’re getting called out on Teresa’s blog so you bring it up here? Is this why you wait to post your blog last as well, read everyone else’s and then comment? All I have to say is: LIAR!!! You’ve done it in other circumstances and it’s been because of Teresa so please don’t take us for fools!!

Submitted by minny1a on June 29, 2011.

Interesting how you skipped over the conversation with Lysa completely.


Submitted by socal2hot2handle on June 29, 2011.


You are so sweet, love watching you with your children, husband, and family!

Submitted by nerak42 on June 29, 2011.

It sounded like Teresa was trying to make amends, but you wanted to keep going with the drama. Women have lots of influence over their men and you should use that influence to bring Teresa and her brother back together, not stoke the fire. True forgiviness is the key on both sides.

Submitted by kimmygirl on June 29, 2011.

oh pleaseee give us a break.. one blog where your not bashing theresa is not gonna change the viewers mind about you! You are still self-centered and manipulative..only now you realize that half of america cant stand you and wants you off the show!

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